The most severe PIED case in internet - 90 DAYS no PMO and my progress so far

This post deserves more attention because I'm having the same problem and I'm sure I'm not the only one here confronting this ED at younger ages. The thing is, it's so difficult to find posts like these with people confronting on long term with ED and finding solution.

Thanks for sharing! Wish you the best on this road!

 

Sorry my dude but your case is mild compared to some of the other longer rebooters on here. You are almost cured at 90 days? depression gone? Some of us are still completely broken at 1 year +. Check out the topic on PAWS if you like https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...hey-cure-duration.231859/page-63#post-2646553. Lots of posts on there and thats where you will find all the most extreme cases.

If only i was feeling better @ 90 days, it would be amazing. I have only just seen mild improvements in mental and physical symptoms recently and im at almost 12 months.

Not to discount your story though and im glad you are seeing improvements. Each recovery is unique, but to say you are the worst case kind of made me laugh,

 

No more depression after 3 months? and greatly diminished anxiety? I could only dream of those going away after only 3 months. Your case is pretty standard dude. My morning wood has only just started to return after almost a year and you have seen significant progress after 3 months. I saw zero progress until the 11 month mark. Go to the start of that thread and read what others have gone through. Notice that PIED is last on the list that people are worried about because the withdrawal symptoms people are going through are just so much worse.

 

Because I really don't know if my ed is induced with porn. I'm just confused about if I relax my pelvic floor muscles or make them strong. I'm totally confused

 

Please somebody help me I'm open to private conversation as well

 

Bro how to send private message, I'm a newbie please tell me

 

If you go back to the beginning of the thread i sent and just see how long all of those guys have been struggling you will realize what a real extreme case is. Not to discount your struggles but if you are seeing good progress after 3 months then you are simply not as bad as you think. One guy just broke his flatline after 20 months

 

I am quite of a severe case as well myself, with tons of hocd, hookers and shit haha

Getting better, this year managed a 93 days streak and now on a 25 days one

Just want libido, erections and good sex back

Used to kind of have it and then messed my head quite well

I got a journal with a very detailed start (quite fucked)

Got a lot lot better

Almost no hocd anymore

Just a bit of flatline ATM and in the process of recovering

Aiming for a year of NoFap

 

Hey man! I read Everything, Your Thread + posts.
First, Thank you for sharing! It's always important to share and help people with the same case as yours.
Second, I agree with @ZeroChill and YourBrainOnPorn.com .
Listen to me. Our brain is plastic. Right now your brain thinks sex is associated with Pixels, Porn and your right hand because you taught it to for years. I've been there. I escalated to the darkest things, Had HOCD and I had the same attitude as yours. I always told myself that once i'll get my erection back i'll start dating but it's a HUGE mistake my friend! I was suffering from a severe PIED for nearly 2 years. I went for 2 long streaks of Monk mode (160 days each) and some short streaks but my libido was still dead. Luckily for you, There is a way(And perhaps the best way) to recover from PIED pretty quickly and it's by rewiring with a real person. I failed so hard on my first experience, But I didn't give up. I believe that PIED caused me and many others performance anxiety as well. I shared my problem with my partner back then in order to release pressure and luckily i had her support. As soon as i started feeling comfortable with her in bed, My erections came back and the sex was good! It took me some time but it needs practice.

There's a really good thread about your case that you should definitely read:
https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/the-ultimate-guide-for-dealing-with-libido-loss.268911/
Probably the best PIED guide i've ever seen here.

Good luck my friend!

 

Hey man,

What you are saying is quite inspiring. I kind of got the feeling that when I was at 93 days, even though I was feeling awesome, the main problems that caused get into the hole of pmo where still there.

I like the approach of getting rewired with someone that you can trust and that will give you support if you are open about the issues that you have.

Could I ask you how is your PIED now? Is it like completely away or still some traces around?

Also, what is your view of nofap in the long term? Are you like completely sure that you do not want to fap again in life?

Cheeeers!

 

I totally AGREE. We ARE meant to mate with women. Actually the best way to rewire our brain is to actually go out and date women and have sex with them. Even more effective than the 90 day reboot (which also can be very helpful).

The VERY reason why we have biological urges to fap almost daily is down to one: the natural desire to mate with a woman. It took me years to realize this. So ALL my desires are really just about mating, not about fapping. Zero. It's all about mating. It's that simple. My desire was just misdirected toward fapping, but it should be toward mating. Biology pure and simple.

 

I have a story about PIED, which made me wake up.

I talked to my urologist about PIED. Luckily he has heard a lot about this. I was frustrated with how my sex was just awful, couldn't get hard when I was inside her. I asked is this something that a lot of men struggle with? He said, yes. Is this normal? No.

He said this:

biology designed for men to have natural and easy penetration, period. So if you have that, then that's an issue, simple as that. He emphasized that: Men should have naturally a solid rock dick during penetration, period.

I told him that sometimes I don't have morning woods. He said every man should have morning woods almost daily. Almost daily. I was shocked to hear that we are actually supposed to have morning woods daily because it's something I don't experience that much.

Next part he said really hits me hard.

He said when you see an attractive woman, you should be able to get a natural spontaneous erection. If you have natural arousal, he emphasized: NATURAL arousal, then your erections should happen naturally when you see a hot girl.

Every time you touch your dick to jack off, you are BASICALLY forcing ARTIFICIAL arousal meaning your dick to get hard artificially with your hands. That's not natural arousal. Natural arousal happens when you see a beautiful girl on the street. She takes your breath away. Your heart beats harder. that's natural arousal creating natural erections.. .just like the way we are designed for.

He said that's basically why millions of men have PIED.

 

holy crap

if that is the standard of what is consider NATURAL

dammit, we are fucked.

this reinforces the idea of just continuing with nofap till freaking death

thanks for sharing the comments of the urologist, quite insightful

 

I was shocked and pissed off but now I totally understand what he means. So I just let ALL natural arousal happen in my body, nothing artificial anymore.

 

Reframe NoFap with this: sex with women...