I'm 17 and keep relapsing to Pegging porn

Hello there. I believe it is possible to get rid of these kind of attraction to fetishes(well maybe you will be attracted to it, but you won't be dependant of it, what is the actual point of the whole abstinence). Let me tell you my example. I was very aroused by homosexual porn and I was really affraid from it, cause I am sure that sexual relations are not meant to be between two being from the same sex. Long story short, after a few months of abstinence (what is a relatively short period) I didn't felt any drive for watching homo porn, and I was naturally aroused by the thinking about some girls. I believe your case is very similar to mine, and I believe that you can escape from it in the case if you take it as a serious problem, and if you distance from it. It is worth, bevause you'll watch to these things more naturally. You can do it!

 

It's not the same for every person. It depends from a few factors (for example how much you're addicted to it). But yeah even after the first month your condition will be better. The longer you stay away from it, the smaller your need will be for it.

 

There is at least some chance you will struggle with pornography use for the rest of your life. I am in my mid 30s and it is still a problem. More accurately, it is still a crutch. I looked at some weird shit around the age of 19 when my porn addiction was at it worst. It freaked me out because I was fascinated and aroused by things that were utterly disgusting. From the vantage point of my 30s, its just not that big of a deal.

Porn use, like everything else, tends to regress to the mean. You can explore all sorts of different fetishes for years, but still end up returning to the same few types of videos and photos over and over. If you are into pegging, you are into pegging. No big deal. Just don't open with that when you finally take a girl to bed.

I think its also worth pointing out that sex with another person is vastly different than masturbating to pornography. Masturbating to pornography is easier, but sex with a partner is better. At least it is when you are sexually compatible. But even when you are extremely compatible with someone, that isn't likely to stop you form looking at porn. Looking at porn and being with a partner work on different parts of the mind.

 

Dosen't matter if you have problems with that kind of P or P about a pot of gold and a leprechaun, it's typical escalation from addiction. Start working on cutting all P out and living the rest of your life without it, and it will fade.

 

I think "curing a fetish" is very wishful thinking. You cannot control what turns you on, and there is nothing weird about being into what you described - lots of people like it. If you want to get rid of your dependency on porn, then let us help you commit to NoFap. Welcome aboard!