THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Updated Duels are as follows

@Alex_Al against @MixerAwersome
- Yeah, Our battle is going to last long for sure. There's no need for an ace like you to check-in daily. It was for the ones who are struggling.

@fg4795 against @bellator de Christi
- @bellator de Christi take note of what @fg4795 is saying, "Discuss instead of only checking for the day". If you are struggling open up and share your opinion.
- @fg4795 There are no rules for you, just keep posting here and encourage, motivate, and help others in their battle. You are an important member of Duel's community.

Existing Duel

@Leader of ME against @The Legend of Hope
- @Leader of ME , Can you keep weekly track of our warriors ( who are fighting? , who is not? , who have relapsed? , who wants to battle? , who don't want to battle? who wants to check in for every day? who can't check in every day?
who are still here check-in but don't have co-fighter, can you ask them if they want a co-fighter? )
If not weekly, at least every 15 days, I want this report. Can you manage this, Protector of the duel?


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@cr7da8055 Do what makes you a better person co-fighter. Come back when you want to. All the best.

@OoMahidoO Sorry mate, you don't have an opponent for now. I'll arrange it as soon as someone enters our duel. Until then you can tag me in your post, we are all here to support each other.

There are No Rules for the duels from my side.
-just tag me when you relapse @MixerAwersome

 

@MixerAwersome It's cool but i think i have a fighter who i can challenge, @aricking lets go?

 

I am not good at this but I will try to help you, of course .

 

And I will start my insight today with my relapse.
Why I searched for porn?
I reflected on it.
Here what I discovered.
I don't miss watching porn.
I missed the feeling of searching for it.
The brain tricked me into searching for it.
But as soon as I entered the site.
End. I just scrolled the page.
Just to feel the task completed.
The point was about the search.
I missed breaking the rule.
I missed failing.
I missed the old me.
The one who always "broke the rules".
Being drunk, maybe some light drug and porn.
I wanted that feeling back.
I wasn't able to replace it with something better.
So my insight is that yes I improved a lot about my porn addiction.
I am getting out of it.
But, at least for me, I found the main problem.
"Sometimes there’s nothing to go back to but you still miss it so much".
I still miss the old me. I still have a little voice that maybe I was happier before(even I know it is bullshit).
But here my problem with porn now.
It's not that I like it.
I like the feeling of searching it.
Now I know what I need to do.
And I will do it.

 

Yea something about this challenge is different. It's more of a brotherhood. We push each other to be better and I like how it's a smaller community. I'll share what's going on like you guys said instead of just checking in. It's better that way.

 

Don't give me easy points like that. Your better than this. What you said about you craving the search instead of the actual porn applies to me too. I never thought about it that way until you said it. I know I don't want to watch porn because deep down it makes me feel sick, but I still really want the rush the search gives me like you said. I think the other half of the urges are just hormones because I'm still young.

 

@cr7da8055 The way we played first minutes I thought we were going to smoke them .

Chelsea was weak whole season .

 

This is a very nice quote!

 

Yeah, but I have to ask for forgiveness because I didn't thought about it because of the relapse.
I am going on holiday.
Since covid rules I decided to visit my country with train and walking. Sleeping in hostel, and visiting all day.
This means on the good side, no time for porn.
On the other side, probably no time for checking here.
So Idk how many times I will check from today to August, 21.
Is that ok?
Of course I am willing to "pay the price" if I am against the rules.
I just didn't thought about it.
Apologizing once again.

 

I would like to see more people here.

 

I'm back to win! @primordial-saiyan Let me enter the duels with someone!

 

I am here now!

 

You need to get to day 3 atleast

 

I am here now!*

 

Fg, no matter for me if this is a duel post. But I'm here to help you. My counsel is: install porn blockers. I know some people have low speed machines but there are some blockers that are really good. Like DNS services... Search for OPENDNS and do whatever you need to put it in your systems (android, windows, etc). Put the settings configs in "Low", it's enough to block porn. Then, install some apps like ***, programs like Cold Turkey and some browser extensions, they won't let your browser bugged or with low speed, trust me.

With this combination, porn can't get through you, and wherever you see that message saying "no porn", just remember your reasons for being here. You are more strong than you think friend, you just saw some images, you still in NoFap, I know your mind is acting like a judge right now, and yourself are the victim of this judgement. Ignore this shit, you deserve to win, and you will, maybe not today, but tomorrow.

Work hard and good work.

 

Fixed.

 

So I'll do it. I'll say loudly and proudly: I DID IT!

 

Shout out to @The Legend of Hope for advertising our thread here .

Serious people are always encouraged .

Welcome back, Gon .

 

If we made it OPEN again people may join

 

Yes, but we don't need much more people .
We set it in a manner that makes it so appealing right now .

A closed, serious community, group .