The Lord of the Rings Challenge

In the ferry brother!!

 

no man, that´s not a relapse. sex is allowed in the challenge.

the problem is paid sex is still objetification of womans. you´re still seeing sex as something you can buy. and, on a wider scale, there´s no different between paying a woman for sex or paying your internet server for porn. it´s the same thing. you´re still flooding your brain with lust, and that´s what the addicted brain craves for.

a crucial milestone in overcoming the addiction is to develop tools that you can use when you feel horny. positive tools, constructive tools. that way you´ll not be a slave of the addiction and you´ll do a giant leap in the reboot process. develop tools now bro, because the urges will come back, faster than you imagine.

 

well, maybe is too soon to stay half an hour home alone. maybe in the beginning, at least in the first month, it´s better not stay home alone at all, or at least home alone with gadgets.

on the other hand, you stayed many weeks sober bro, so your brain as rewired a bit, i´m proud of you. Now clean the dust, learn with the fall and carry on. Onward!!!!

 

thank you brother . here´s the perfect video to inspire you.

 

Congratulations brother, you took off the PMO ring Breathe the free air my friend



The fate of the ring now lies with you. Will you destroy it or use it again? I think we both know the answer to it

Good luck my brother. Godspeed!!!!!!!

 

One more day heading South brave Fellowship.

Have a great Sunday all, stay focus, stay in the path!!!!!

Here´s Soaring Eagle with words of wisdom

"Relapses happen daily after a relapse one is often very disheartened, this is not hard to see. In the start one is full of ambition with a tremendous amount of determination, after a while this determination starts to sway, after numerous relapses, we start to lose confidence in ourselves. Body symptoms tell you to stop indulging, by indulging further the body is finished, but the addiction tells you to keep masturbating. The vast majority of brothers are firmly controlled
the addiction, like a stringed doll and becoming a slave to desires, losing one’s free will; aware of the error but unable to stop, struggling bitterly in the vicious cycle.

It is not scary to relapse, still scarier it is to not study, without it the level of awareness and determination will not increase. Brute force rebooting without studying will surely result in failure! Some brothers would ask, is anyone able to completely reboot on the first try? To tell the truth, out of the thousands of brothers that I came across, I have yet to see anyone succeeding on their first try. Everybody has repeatedly relapsed, constantly learning from their past mistakes, constantly studying rebooting articles to increase the awareness and determination, and slowly succeeding in this fashion."