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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Bianca, Aug 2, 2020.

  1. Bianca

    Bianca Fapstronaut

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    I am 18 and new here.
    I start here because I have too much sex activity. I am called nympho. I earned this name because the way I dress - mostly braless. I don’t even know really why I like it so often. I am too easy down to have sex or at least give bj often random guys I don’t know much. It’s a thrill somehow I easily give in. Just a thought really I allow and let unfold. I didn’t find it too much somehow. But the feedback I get seems that I am not ok. I am called names. I might want to cut down on activity. I watch too much porn and o too much. That I do feel and want to reduce. The sex or bj I don’t see really bad. Well. Am open to see how things go here and what I can learn
     
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  2. Bianca

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    I wish here were more activity and interaction
     
  3. Bianca

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    Maybe not the right group for me. I hoped there is interaction
     
  4. inferiorlo

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    Hey bianca you will be fine don't worry you found this website means you Were finding ways to give up these things you are fine now
     
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  5. Bianca

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    Thank you. So you don’t think random encounters is bad?
     
  6. Bianca

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    Inferiolo. Thank you. This is nice
     
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  7. Bianca

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    How does it work further here? AP PARTNER? Can someone explain? I’d like one. Please connect with me
     
  8. Hello Bianca, in terms of resources you can go to get help with this addiction:
    -There is a women in recovery group on the site, so you might want to consider reaching out to them and joining.
    -There is a section for accountability partners but most of the users here are men so if you want a female accountability partner, I would ask the women in recovery group. If you are ok with a male accountability partner then just head to the "accountability partners" part of the section and make a thread.
    -If you're looking to start a journal, then there is a "Women in Reboot" section where the women here journal their experiences overcoming this addiction. So, you can start a journal there.
    -There's resources online you can look up to find out more about this addiction and what you can expect during your recovery so looking at those can be useful. For example, YourBrainOnPorn is a website that has a lot of useful information and first-hand experiences.

    Please let me know if you have any other questions, I'm happy to help.
     
  9. Bianca, if you feel that sexual activity or random sexual encounters aren't a problem in your life then you don't have to make that a part of your recovery. You've expressed an interest in cutting down though on PMO though which is great. That's the first step. Like I said, this is a personal journey so it includes eliminating or reducing whatever you want to. Either way, we'll be here to support you and listen if you need someone to talk/vent to.

    Also, consider looking into therapy. Getting therapy for these addictions can be useful because we learn more about how we think. If it's not an option or unaffordable, that's okay too, it's the reality for most people. Lastly, it's not okay at all to be called names for what you choose to do with your body. We're all human and we're all dealing with different things. This might seem like a distressful time in your life right now but I know you can get through this. You're young and you have the rest of your life to beat this addiction so you will get there definitely. You just have to stay strong and remember your goals.
     
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  11. Bianca

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    I am ok with m AP.
     
  12. That's good that you're open to a male accountability partner. Just be careful since we're addicts here. Our judgements and decisions might not reflect our values sometimes. Make sure you get to know your accountability partner before really opening up to them so you can feel safe.

    Here's the link to the accountability partner forum: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?forums/accountability-partners.7/

    Let me know if there's anything else you need.
     
  13. Bianca

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    Would like to get AP replies. Do you like?
     

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