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WHEN WILL THIS ENDDD

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quitterrr, Aug 7, 2020.

  1. Quitterrr

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    I have only been doing pmo for 2 years, maybe a little less, ive abstained from it for over 160 fucking days and still get some urges, not as big as the ones in the beginning, but im fucking tired of having keep resisting urges, btw if you're here to say it never ends, shut up and leave
     
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  2. Greenarrow1159

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    Have you tried to get out and start a real relationship I feel like urges are a natural part of us 160 days is way more than enough for your brain to rewire I heard it’s supposed to be healed after ninety days I don’t see myself doing 160 days without pmo because after ninety or before those are up I see myself finding a gf
     
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  3. Greenarrow1159

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    Wow just wow 160 days is a huge pat on the back I think it’s time for you to get into a relationship
     
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  4. Greenarrow1159

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    But then again how long have you been addicted to porn the longer the addiction the longer it will take for recovery just don’t obsess. Maybe you should stop nofap forum and Pmo maybe your giving it too much though man.
     
  5. Greenarrow1159

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    Just my opinion I’ve only been off pmo for a week And have had about three sex dreams last night I had a dream with a pocket sleeve and ejaculated a bucketload in my dream then two nights ago foreplay with a girl then a the second night of abstaining I got a bj. I’m 18 and been doing pmo for ten years
     
  6. Quitterrr

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    There is no such thing as the fight never ends, I won't be addicted to porn for decades just cuz 12 year old me wanted to pmo for 1.5 years
     
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  7. Quitterrr

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    I'm 14, I rly just wanna focus on school and stuff, while nofap made me gain confidence to talk to girls, but I don't want a relationship, as the next 3 years will determine my future yada yada
     
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  8. Quitterrr

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    Btw, getting flashbacks of porn is the cause of urges, I've recently started meditation for many reasons, and it's really working, I feel like I can control my mind, and also I can control north Korean nukes
     
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  9. Do you think you got rid of a lot of flashbacks in your current streak ?I think I got rid of most of them, but they still some exist.
     
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  10. I agree with you. Kudos on quitting so early on, I wish my sorry 14 year old ass was as smart as you. You only did PMO for a year and a half and you have nearly 6 months already. Be patient, you should be getting rid of this addiction completely in no time. I reccommend sticking to the meditation, it really helps with unwanted thoughts and stuff.
     
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  11. Make girl friends, then! I think it will increase your confidence to talk to girls even more. Besides, it's good to have friends of both sexes.
     
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  12. Greenarrow1159

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    Amen don’t let those three years make you feel like all you have to focus on is school find a smart girl study together find friends who are just as motivated as you have fun out of school; being a scholar who only wanted to focus on school it’s not the best idea to reject outside relationships. I was never pushed out into the world by my parents which is another reason I found comfort in porn; rejecting relationships will only make you think more about porn. School isn’t everything; mate what do you want to be when you grow up? Have you figured that out yet?
     
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  13. Quitterrr

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    Oh don't think of me as the guy who sits alone at school and studies, nah I talk to girls and boys, I ain't shy (I was), besides I wish I could be a doctor, don't know what speciality tho, but still thx for your caring!

    Btw one of the 2 main reasons I wanted to quit was to get into medical school, as I went from being the top in the school to the top 10 in the class :(, but now I'm trying my hardest to become the best again
     
  14. Greenarrow1159

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    @Quitterrr impressive your only 14 m8 and are quitting pmo now i wish i would of done this at age 14 instead of age 18 i prolly would be a completely different person; keep going m8 your gonna make a great doctor and the high ambition is what will get you there pretty soon you'll be the top of your class with motivation like this.
     
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  15. Quitterrr

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    Ik u would think of this as a normal "thank you", but trust me, these words mean so much more to me than you think, and trust me, if me and u are still around for the next 2/3 years, I'll tell u what happened, but still, thank you so much man, I rly REALLY appreciate it
     
  16. Quitterrr

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    I'm keeping my word, I'll tell you what happened, I'll turn 16 in less than 20 days, I'm one of the top students in my school now and I only have 4 subjects left to enter medical school at the age of 16, thank you man you were always in my mind, ik you didn't enter for a long time but if u see this thx
     
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  17. JoeinUSA

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    It ends about 3 hours after you're in the grave.
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  18. Quitterrr

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    That was me like one year ago, yet from that time all the way until now, I still can't find who asked, but if you find one please tell him to contact me ASAP, will be of great help, thanks
     
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    Saludos a todos. En mi opinión, de lo que hasta ahora he aprendido, entendido de mi adicción al PMO, la recuperación se trata de algo más que el tiempo, algo más que "¿Cuánto tiempo tendré que resistir", de hacerlo por fuerza bruta. Desde mi punto de vista, trato de enfocarme más bien en incorporar cambios de hábitos, que incluyen un nuevo estilo de vida, para mí esto es NoFap, un estilo de vida, porque mi adicción al PMO es incurable, lo que no significa que deba convertirse ni en una condena ni en una carga. Para mí se trata de cultivar hábitos saludables: comer saludable, hacer ejercicio, meditaciones guiadas, ejercicios de respiración, dormir bien y sobre todo un lavado de cerebro: estudiar las temporadas de Soaring Eagle, leer estos hilos del foro NoFap y leer libros de recuperación de la adicción sexual. Es desarrollar una disciplina y compromiso con mi recuperación, algo que está más allá de la emocionalidad, de si me siento bien o mal, feliz o agobiado, jamás podría condicionar a eso mi recuperación.
     
  20. 19Rd

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    C’est l’idéal de se trouver une copine car ces envies font parti du corps humain, vous avez raison.
     

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