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Help With PIED Please

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by XDrKingSchultz, Aug 12, 2020.

  1. XDrKingSchultz

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    Hey guys... quick question... while I was PMOing heavily I had an issue with maintaining erections. I could get hard but I would have to constantly keep stimulating myself to stay at my hardest. I used to never have that problem. I also noticed that during this time my morning wood disappeared. How many of you had the same issues and how long did those issues persist after quitting? I recently relapsed after 22 days and had some morning wood but it was weak during that time after about a week. Now I’m back on a 4 days streak and my morning wood has returned already this time, but still quite weak. It’s not my libido, I’m still extremely horny, but without using really strong stimulation I don’t get to 100 percent hardness. Anyway, I’d just like to know what you guys’ experience with these issues were and how long it took to solve them. I can and could tell throughout my last and current streak that it is improving, but painstakingly slow. My main worry is that even when I watched porn I didn't get a full erection unless I was constantly providing stimulation... the posts and videos I read online make it appear as if normally PIED causes lack of erection in normal settings, but while watching porn one gets rock hard instantly... that has certainly not been the case with me. However, I would also literally sit 4 hours in front of a computer and open tab after tab before eventually finishing.

    Thanks guys!
     
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  2. -ChangeYourLife-

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    For how long are you having these symptoms?
     
  3. XDrKingSchultz

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    That's tough to say... I was with my last girlfriend for 2 years... I think I noticed requiring constant stimulation during sex and also during masturbation about 6-8 months ago.. I didn't notice the loss of morning wood until the corona break... however, during the start of the corona break I was masturbating like mad (I had broken up with my gf). I would spend hours masturbating with constant stimulation, opening hundreds of tabs before finally finishing. I can't imagine that this wouldn't be the cause of my problems. I'm about 5 days into this streak (longest I have gone in over two years) and I have not noticed any improvement yet. That being said, I am literally having dreams of looking up porn on the computer...

    My libido is still high. I still get horny, but I just don't seem to get hard unless I provide serious stimulation... Is this unusual for a former fapper?
     
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  4. -ChangeYourLife-

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    Yea, it's very usual these symptoms, do you still have some involuntary erections like morning or nocturnal ones or is it just like numb?
     
  5. XDrKingSchultz

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    During my PMO times it was completely numb outside of sex and masturbation. No morning wood at all and even when I saw a video that attracted me I wouldn’t get hard unless I applied stimulation. However, I’ve noticed now that I have been on NoFap for a while that I am becoming a lot more turned on by more innocuous images again, but still I don’t get straight up random erections like I used to. It makes it more difficult to resist urges, but I am happy that I don’t require straight up porn to even get any reaction at all (no physical erection, but mentally I get turned on). That being said, I’m still not getting daily morning wood and when I do have it it’s very weak, but it’s progress from not having any at all for months while on PMO. I am starting to feel reassured that my issues are entirely born from porn and not from other factors, which is what I was worried about. I’m hoping that by the time I hit 60 days I will have normal erections again. I’m already further than I thought after the first week. I remember in the first 5-6 days I felt no changes at all and started to get really worried nothing was going to improve because I had other issues unrelated to porn use. That’s why I came on here originally and asked. I’ve noticed small but notable improvement since then. Your words are reassuring and I appreciate your replies. No one else has said a thing which sort of surprised me...
     
  6. dodot007

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    Any improvement?
     
  7. roofs

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    Hope you're still on here. I don't think your symptoms are very unusual, I can relate to parts of it. If you get on here again I'd be interested in whether you made improvements and how you're doing!
     
  8. KHERI

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    it is flatline bro keep faith it will pass ,did u checked your testosterone level and thyroid
     
  9. dodot007

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    Hi how about you, any improvement? Do you fix your testoterone?
     
  10. Gottagetbetterthanthis

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    I got my testosterone fixed and still dumb dick is dead lol. I’m in the same boat as you bro. I hope your doing ok. I’m 5 days clean from everything. After all my reading here I’ve come to accept that it’s gonna take some time to undo this damage. My concern is I’m in a relationship and I love her and our sex life was great with the exception of my PIED. I’m hoping that I can reset my mind while still keeping my gf happy. We are trying to have a child so I desperately need to stick to nofap. I love my chick. I want a life with her. Now that I know hopefully there is hope for my cursed cock. I’m not touching any porn again. Good luck to everyone and thank you all for sharing. This topic def sucks. Hope to hopefully report that I can please my gf again
     
  11. Werner Heisenberg

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    First of all sorry to highjack the OP's post, the topic I wanted to share is similar and I thought it would be best to pool all responses together.

    Just like everyone else who is experiencing it I hate PIED! In the past when I used to experience it, I would lay off PMO for a week or so and it would disappear. Though this was last year, but this year is different. I feel like I got a more severe PIED, one which will take few months to recover from. I meeting my gf next month and I most certain it's not enough time. I am barely 36 hours clean and I am actually considering to throw in the towel. (I won't, but it's a crappy feeling to have) and I am also considering breaking up with my gf, which seems logical as why she has to suffer my addiction's consequences.

    I tried to quit before, but never because of PIED. Like I mentioned before it wasn't that serious of a problem. In the past, I would quit for different reasons such as mind clarity, working out, or self discipline. Now on the other hand, I am quitting because of PIED and I have no motivation what so ever to do so. I'll try to quit for different reasons like before, but I don't think I can trick myself, all I think about now is my PIED.

    Sound like a silly rhetorical question, how did you guys stay consistent through your journey if healing your PIED is the objective?
     
  12. Gottagetbetterthanthis

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    I’m not looking at porn ever again. I still love naked women and I’m horny af still but not being able to get hard is a deal breaker for me. I love my gf and she deserves good regular sex. I’m 7 days no porn and no masturbation. I definitely feel better already but have a long way to go. I haven’t seen my chick yet. Will see her tomorrow. I can’t wait. For me I know I love my gf. I know I want kids. I got stuck in a rut. I didn’t realize the damage I was doing. No that I have the knowledge and learned the consequences are real. It’s like being a drug addict. I know 1st time I look at 1 porn I’ll be back. I prefer playing sports rather than watching. Same applies fir sex lol. Just stay positive. Stay focused on your goal. Try to exercise. I swear, exercise helps heal everything. Good luck! Hope this helped
     
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  13. Werner Heisenberg

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    Congrats on 7 days!

    Please don't get discouraged if you couldn't get hard. Don't let it ruin your time with your partner. There are plenty of stuff, other than PiV, to do and still have a great time together. Those are my 2 cents, pardon me if I crossed the line.

    Peace
     
  14. Gottagetbetterthanthis

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    Thanks for the feedback. No worries at all bro. I appreciate the positivity. This will be my first time seeing her in 2 weeks so I’m really hoping for the best!!!
     
  15. XDrKingSchultz

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    Hey guys, I’m still here, but not with messages of joy. I keep relapsing like a pathetic rat in a cage. My symptoms are exactly the same as then. I’m severely addicted. I went about 9 days without masturbation and my erections did begin to be harder. During that time I would have dreams about porn, that’s how addicted I am. I am back to start again and this time never look at porn again. Everything else in my life is going so well, I wish I could get rid of this ailment and I can’t even imagine what I would be capable of then.
     
  16. XDrKingSchultz

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    Oh, sorry for the double post, but also...

    I did get my blood work done and my Testosterone levels are great. I am not deficient in any way... my dick is just exhausted...
     
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  18. XDrKingSchultz

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    No, it’s the same size, but it definitely doesn’t reach its peak size anymore unless I’m right about to come. It’s disheartening because I used to get complimented for it. I’m tired of this curse.
     

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