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Passing hot photos or sexting with your girlfriend count as relapse?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Lucas_P25, Aug 19, 2020.

  1. Aug 19, 2020 #1
    Lucas_P25

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    I have a girlfriend that I love who knows about the problem I'm going through and she doesn't care about me and she loves me just the same. but my question is whether to pass photos of us to each other. or does sexting with her count as a relapse? Because it's fun, even if I don't masturbate, I go 1 week into the trip to heal myself, at most I touch myself a little for the photos she asks me, I work on board, that's why we can't be around. I want to cure myself of this disease so that I can enjoy everything well with it. So please whoever reads this could help me?
     
    Lucas_P25, Aug 19, 2020
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  2. Aug 19, 2020 #2
    NF4L

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    Hi @Lucas_P25 and welcome.
    It is your recovery, so it is your rules. In my opinion though, sexting and sending and receiving nudes isn’t going to help you heal. It is still fantasy, just pixels on a screen, and doesn’t help you find healthy and vulnerable ways to connect and communicate with your partner. Unfortunately, it is the sexy images that could tempt you find more images somewhere, then next thing you know you are resorting back to porn or other habits to get your hit. It’s all too easy to fall down that path once your P-brain or addicted mindset convinces you that an image is okay, then why not animated gifs, might as well watch a video, etc.
     
    NF4L, Aug 19, 2020
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