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This is 1 reason why I can't stand the german society & their relationships

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Krillin1993, Aug 16, 2020.

  1. Beat_Wizard

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    This is plainly a lie. Zeit and Süddeutsche do reflect society, especially the online articles and their magazines (like Zeit Magazin).
    Another lie. BILD and the Springer publishing house are constantly getting sued for misinformation and fake news. That is a well-known fact.

    Look it up, my friend. There is no age restriction but that's how the platform is used.
    You are taking this out of context. Domians radio show was specifically for these individual cases, they had a therapist team to help these people just in case. Domian is not the mirror of german society.
    There are enough sick people in the world, and they don't all live in germany.

    Again, completely taking something out of context. yes, the Reeperbahn is the Hamburg redlight district, that however has nothing to do with gays and trans. next, yes, being a prostitue is legal in germany, prostitution or pimping however is illegal. Fact is, that we have less prostitution than in the states for example where girls are kidnapped and forced to go on the streets, but who would care about that, right? Next, gay people and transgender people have as much a right to be as any others and if you wanna come at me with christian principles I will smite you with christian principles. Because first of all don't judge, lest you be judged; second of all love thy neighbour as thyself and third of all transgender is referred to in the bible numerous times (Jacob gave his son Joseph a garment).
    This is a world wide problem and doesn't only concern germany.
    So what if we don't synergize? What if we don't have chemistry?

    You are framing my country, insulting my culture, and you clearly have no idea about love. Love is something you share and sex is something you share with a partner. Intimacy. But when you're young and still have a lot to learn about yourself, you have to experiment. try things out. Live a bit. Find the person you really do click with and make her your queen. But let me ask you this: What do your accusations say about you? Don't you have your own problems to solve instead of insulting others?
     
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  2. Beat_Wizard

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    That's not at all what I said! You twisted my words into something completely different, just to support your narrative. Sex is not performance, you are partners. It's teamwork, it's intimate, it's being emotional, bonding and sharing a wonderful moment with eachother. Who are you to judge? Apologize!
     
  3. she-dernatinus

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    If it's a matter of emotions, bonding, and sharing a moment toghether. Then you should have never used the car driving comparaison: it's cold, mechanical, utilitarian. Go back to your previous reply and see if it has any connotation of teamwork; it's just a matter about experiencing and learning enough before driving a ferrari. Those are your words not mine.
    Should I be blamed if I comprehended things the way I did ?
     
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  4. Beat_Wizard

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    maybe we misscommunicated. I don't think it's utilitarian at all. That is your opinion. I think the metaphor shows that it's about growing and not expecting to be the Sexgod. But it shows that you can get better at it. Experience yourself, grow and learn what you are truly searching for. We all are looking for a soulmate, but we need to learn more about ourselves, face our fears and develop into the best version of ourselves. That, and releasing all of our selfdoubt, selfhate and lies that are clouding our minds and stop us from coming out of our little comfort zone.
    You can understand my comparaison the way you decide to, but when you judge me, that's unfair. Sure, maybe it wasn't the best way to explain what I meant, but I'm definetely not one-dimensional. That's too easy.
     
  5. she-dernatinus

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    There is nothing that stops you from experiencing that with a single partner. Both need to be comprehensive and patient .
    Again no need to muliply partners to achieve that.
    I think you should read again what you wrote. The message is clear, you can't learn how to drive a golf and then a ferrari, and still consider emotional bonding part of the equation. It's contradictory.
     
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  6. Beat_Wizard

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    Again, that's subjective. You chose to see it that way.
    It doesn't always work out that way. I'm not talking about being promiscuous and also not about having several partners at the same time. I'm saying that sometimes you have a one night stand and it didn't work out for different reasons. And that is okay!
    Your status even says: "It is ok to fall from time to time. But never justify your falls to ease your mind and sooth your feelings." Nobody is perfect. We were placed here to learn. people misjudge, people make mistakes and often it takes more partners to learn about yourself and gain experience, because every person is different.
    If in your eyes that is wrong, then we just have different opinions.
     
  7. she-dernatinus

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    I told you there is no such thing as 'casual' sex. Human brains don't work in symbiosis with feeting intimate relationships. The psychological damage is still there nonetheless. Also, the whole concept of one-night stand is questionable for me, it makes us view people as disposable sexual outlets. I'm sure you understand what I'm refering to.
    Yes, this status was refering to Porn compulsive use. Even though what you are doinf now goes perfectly well with the second part of the sentence: justifying your falls to sooth your feelings.
    I never said it was wrong, but defending your mistakes and misdeeds as in : experiementing with a golf in order to use a ferrari; is deeply insensitive and without a doubt wrong.
     
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  8. Beat_Wizard

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    Have you ever had a one night stand?
    I am honest too myself and that's all I need. you ain't my reverend.
    Think we will never agree on this. You clearly aren't trying to see it from my perspective. Leave it be. But I bet you need to have the last word on this....
     
  9. ThePeakWae

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    No wonder they say nowadays to get a Asian wife, she´ll love you more than Western Thots!
     
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    You gotta distinguish the Incels and fake MGTOWs, from the real deal, I´ve some experience with MGTOW groups, there are a lot of side groups, biggots, and wannabees pretending to be MGTOW, real MGTOWs wont slander women for wanting to be as free as men, they´ll just say: "It´s good that you want that honey, that way we men can also be free".

    There´s also a certain MGTOW cartoon that showcases how the different side groups think and how the divisions occur between the movement, it´s on episode 2 and features "John going his own way" as the starting episode and terms like "divorce rape", it doesnt hold back from exposing truths in the biased court system and treats thugs and thots very realistically, I suggest you watch it.
     
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    Tom Leykis, says that if you dont keep a good sex record with your wife, she can cheat on you, if she doesnt check her libido, but lets be honests, the oposite can just as easily happen.

    The problem with the courts is that bias towards women, that makes them more likely to cheat and divorce their husbands, if that incentive was taken out at least the cheat records could be back to a balanced state.
     
  12. Queek The HeadTakker

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    You need to stand and fight foe the KAISER !!!!!
     
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    I need your help guys. I have been searching for sex toys which I would like to try for myself. Can you please tell me where to buy reliable sex toys both for men & women? As a starter, I want to try svakom. How much do you know about it?
     
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  14. Krillin1993

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    Nobody can hurt me anymore if I start to go my own way. Everyone should start to live in harmony with him or her alone. Loneliness is suffering, but we have to overcome this without any additional person. I dont care anymore how the germans or anyone else acts, because I am trying not to be needy for any woman in my life anymore. I am not searching for love anymore. I am not hurt anymore. Finding a love relationship is a conicidence and not which you can get by haunting it. I think this is my current life lesson.
     
  15. she-dernatinus

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    I'm also not trying to hunt any love. I will let fate do it's job, and take me where it wants to.
     
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