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Why is it like this?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by jameswilkinson, Aug 29, 2020.

  1. jameswilkinson

    jameswilkinson Fapstronaut

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    Anybody else think that the porn is to blame or are we ourselves to blame for being lonely?
     
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  2. There is nobody to blame for solitude.
    For loneliness, however, we have to hold ourselves accountable.
     
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  3. jameswilkinson

    jameswilkinson Fapstronaut

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    how can we hold ourselves accountable when loneliness refers to needing someone else to be there
     
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  4. Loneliness means you cannot stand your own company and are idle. Hobbies, goals and self-improvement are always options. You limit yourself by assuming that other people are the only means to end your loneliness.
     
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  5. jameswilkinson

    jameswilkinson Fapstronaut

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    ok I get that. maybe I dont love myself to be alone...
     
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  6. You can always work on it.
     
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  7. jameswilkinson

    jameswilkinson Fapstronaut

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    how do you suggest I go about this?
     
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  8. I actually have no idea. This isn't a problem I face, so it's a bit difficult for me to put myself in your shoes. I do know that it is possible, since many people ik irl have conquered loneliness. If I find out a particularly impactful story, I'll be sure to update you here.
     
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