Need advice from manly dudes

A deep voice and large adams apple is an attraction not a hindrance. You'd probably make an excellent Announcer btw

 

Bro don't worry! That happened to me at some point in my journey as well. I think that your energy stack up somewhere because your body is not used to this at first due to excess pmoing. Keep going and you'll see what I'm talking about...

 

Intense?

I have the same problem man, the fact is you are not intense, you are probably creepy.

5 pounds of muscle in 1 month?
This forum is so funny

P.s. by the way you describe yourself you don't look intense, or 98% intensity, you look fucking scared, anxious, and insecure.

Start from here.

 

You are just trying to look manly and scaring, which is really kiddish an typical for unsecure man.
The fact that you are always ready to fight says you are scared and anxious, and woman hate that, they think it's creepy, and it is.

I mean, even if dudes would be afraid of you, who would give a fuck? Nobody, and surely not women.

You are manly and strong in your mind, but by the way you describe yourself you look more like a kid with esteem issues.
As i say, start from here.

 

Well, this is a bit unorthodox of an approach, but maybe it's not so much the energy that's the problem but your expression of it?

Let's put it into this frame of mind: the energy you have is increasing even though you (clearly) are very active. This excess energy causes you to carry yourself in an intimidating way. Well, if you can't "exhaust" this energy supply through physical means, then it's time to look at the mind.

Maybe seek out a counselor so that they can help you understand the social cues you're giving off and how people are interpreting them (and, of course, afterwards you can work on adjusting them)? Or maybe something that can help channel that energy mentally, like a challenging class or playing chess or hell, maybe even something spiritual like meditation would help.

Because, again, the energy isn't really the *problem*, it's how that energy is expressed and picked up by other people. Lol, sorry if this seems a little esoteric, but you never know, I fresh approach can sometimes give fresh results!

Good luck, regardless of what you end up trying!

 

Deep voice myself... intimidating, not really only when im pissed at something. Basically i spend most of time with ladies. So i guess its natural. But what they find cool about me, is that i am myself.

I am myself, and I only change to better myself...

 

You may want to check out Eliott Hulse bioenergetics, grounding etc. The guy turned his life around. Just like you mentioned, he went from being a warrior 24/7 to the place where he is. Active meditation and a lot of stuff went in it. Better do some research.

 

So I looked up the guys you mentioned and I get what you mean now. Well, let's put it this way: I still advocate counseling because, hypothetically, let's say this something you CAN'T change. You're always just going to put off this vibe. What could you do?

You can work on becoming comfortable with it, that's what! And trust me, I know that's NOT the option you're going for now, but it could be the option that ends up being more viable. A good counselor won't just help you "fix" things you find wrong with yourself, they'll also be able to help you accept things that aren't wrong at all but that you might be uncomfortable with.

I've gone to counseling a bunch and, once you find a counselor you mesh with, they can really turn your life around. I've actually convinced a lot of my friends to seek professional help for those issues they just couldn't quite seem to get a handle on and they all say it was definitely a boon.

Not that I don't understand, it's strange to go if you aren't used to opening up like that, but nothing to lose if you do give it a shot!

Otherwise yeah, if that energy you have isn't being used up through exercise (no matter how hard you push) then I would be willing to bet it's energy stemming from a mental area. I'm no expert, mind you, but try changing it up, doing something that requires a lot of concentration, and see if that helps you feel more calm. Meditation, chess, wood working, taking a high-level class avout something... there are lots of options, just try them out and see which feels right!

 

Well for what it's worth, I always have massive amounts if energy, even when I used to be MOing daily.

So you can picture things now. :/ I'm quite literally bouncing off walls 24/7.

But yeah. I'm not buff or anywhere near that bulky physique so (most) girls find that constant energy cute although it does bug people as well. Mostly guys, but yes- other girls too. And I don't even have that bulky body going for me!

It's all a fucking stereotype man. Very little open-minded people whatsoever in the world. I genuinely feel sorry for you man. Can't help you, but I can be supportive.

Because tbh, we're of the same spirit but in different physiques. One day, you'll meet a girl who can see past that.
So really man- don't worry.

At least you have that 6 pack I've been working on for ages my metabolism is really off the charts so although i can pull off things like waking 24 hours without much impedance and eating like a pig without gaining a pound, it hurts me at times like this.

You'll meet that girl man. And tbh you'll meet her soon. Just keep venturing out there.

 

Well you should read my post what NoFap actually does to you. I have years of experience but some people actually deny it and are against me lol. Basically NoFap turned me into a very serious and nervous person. Yes i became very confident, very alpha male among others. I had no fear, anxiety, nothing. Well of course people eventually started turning aggressive towards me. I lost friends. My parents saw me as very serious person and told me i have changed. Girls seemed to be more attracted towards me but i don't remember half of them actually enjoying my presence. Most guys would just give me rude looks and tried to act tough in front of my eyes or something because they felt threatened etc. Yeah i've actually been relapsing lately and even my parents say i am somewhat more relaxed and happier. Do you even know how much stress NoFap gives you? It's something you can't even handle with workouts or some stupid meditation. I'm not against NoFap but yeah busting a load once a week might be actually very beneficial to you. There are actually millions of posts like this where people even say they got bad luck because of NoFap. Do your research if you want but i already wrote a post how sex and fapping might actually be good for you.

 

You should go deeper through this without escaping from it. Stay revved up all of the time, that's fine. Stop trying to dissipate your energy. Stop making a problem out of this.

Stay away from PMO and be a normal virile man.
Honestly, the anger aspect sounds like high-estrogen more than T.

Eventually you will meet a traditional woman who likes a "manly dude". Don't change yourself for women.

Who cares if you're scaring people? I think you're introspecting too much about this. Leverage whatever qualities you have to your advantage.

 

So much bullshit in your reply it's amazing.

 

Yoga and martial arts have traditionally been balanced with meditation and a spiritual approach. In the western world those finer elements were dropped. Many woman want more than just muscles and a macho "John Wayne" attitude.

 

Are you the one telling him that he should look at porn so that he can be happier?

 

You seem to be a beta male.