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[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. RestartGame_

    RestartGame_ Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone, I'm happy to be back. I was out of touch with the community for some time.
    I have relapsed today, because currently I lack a clear plan for my new habits and because of isolation and no social interaction, but with my dysfunctional and toxic family that I live with.

    I have been practicing gratitude together with breathing exercises every morning and at night,
    now it is more at night, because I have been slacking off in the morning and oversleep most of the time.

    my Psicologist tells me to go for runs outside as a "substitute" for social interaction, maybe also with other people (I checked can't find anyone doing events in my area), but I don't think I can keep doing that long term alone... and so it costs a lot of willpower and my anxiety makes the running unpleasant at times and leaves me down, mostly because of the people and my annoying nasal constipation issue.
    Also the Portuguese people here where I live are, let's say, "closed" people and don't want to get to know other people outside their circle of friends, unless I go to lisbon where there are tourists and students (which are usually open people).

    So I used to go to Lisbon to meet up with people from other countries, which is way more exciting.
    They are easier to communicate with, but now, with this virus, prolly not gonna happen anymore.

    I'm not sure how I am going to get my shit together, I'm watching the Dopamine Detox and Reset Ritual from Universal Man right now to see if I am going to get this straight.

    Let me know what you think and how it is going for you.
     
  2. 3/90
    Everything is impossible, until its done.
    [​IMG]
     
  3. 03 September
    Day 2/90
    Day 14/No PO
     
  4. I wonder who said that ... ? LOL :)
     
  5. Yeah, one month in and 1/3 the way through this challenge! Must keep focused day by day...I can do it!

    Day 30/90
    Day 587 at attempting this challenge
    Day 204 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, alcohol and sweets
     
  6. MrWinning

    MrWinning Fapstronaut

  7. BurgerChamp

    BurgerChamp Fapstronaut

  8. Chis

    Chis Fapstronaut

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  9. baskethull

    baskethull Fapstronaut

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    Day 0
    my addiction has gone out of this world this past few days and I just feel sick of it. Can't wait for this new challenge
     
  10. Blaze21

    Blaze21 Fapstronaut

    Day 39/90
    Let's go brothers! let's keep the good work! Don't give up!
     
  11. BSF

    BSF Fapstronaut

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    Day 12! In some ways it’s getting easier, and others it’s getting harder. Easier, because I feel like I’m starting to form good habits, and not having porn in my life is starting to feel more normal. However, today I had a moment where the urges were really strong. I didn’t want to give in to porn, but I let my imagination run wild with girls I saw today. It honesty felt worse than porn, because I recognized how badly I wanted to see these women in a sexual way. I know there’s nothing wrong with sexual attraction, but I need to start seeing people as people first, and not as objects for my sexual enjoyment. Plus, if you let your imagination run rampant, I feel like you lose out on the benefits of PMO. You don’t practice as much self control, and your self confidence goes way down when you actually talk to one of these girls, because you’re a little ashamed of what you were just thinking about.
    Anyway, sorry for the long post. I feel like putting my thoughts on this thread really helps me find resolve for each new day. Giving up porn is making me realize other ways in which I need to grow as a person.
     
    baskethull, Robsoon, Blaze21 and 11 others like this.
  12. vicicool

    vicicool Fapstronaut

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    I feel like u could be on something there! For me the 2nd habit to break would be my youtube and just entertainment addiction, meaning series on internet or TV. It takes to much time where I could‘ve been productive instead of a consumer-potatoe!
     
  13. freeprinter23

    freeprinter23 Fapstronaut

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  14. vicicool

    vicicool Fapstronaut

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    You‘ve come so far! An inspiration to us all and a real man you are. Go get em!!!
     
    Boyish 123, CENA7, John Call and 8 others like this.
  15. vicicool

    vicicool Fapstronaut

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    Yeah! Congrats on 30 days!! I will be there soon too! You are an inspiration to us all. So please, keep going.
    I don‘t know u, but I‘m proud of u. Your presence is a enrichment and you make a difference.
    Go get em!!!!!
     
  16. Golden-Balls

    Golden-Balls Fapstronaut

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  17. bthebest

    bthebest Fapstronaut

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  18. bromor

    bromor Fapstronaut

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    Day 3 No M
    Day 250 No P

    Hey guys! Nice philosophical video today :)

    I agree. This video was a bit extreme. I get that the idea of going all the way is for a positive passion of yours that would change the world or give you meaning. I don't think it's supposed to give you a healthy and balanced life and is definitely not for everyone. I don't think it is meant for going all the way with your dopamine inducing addictions either. But yes I agree this is not healthy in general and it depends on what you want to do and what that passion is. I just shared it for the general idea.
     
    Merry Terry, bthebest, Pone and 6 others like this.

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