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[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. MrWinning

    MrWinning Fapstronaut

  2. Chis

    Chis Fapstronaut

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  3. Day 35/90
    Day 592 at attempting this challenge
    Day 205 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, alcohol and sweets
     
  4. Blaze21

    Blaze21 Fapstronaut

    Day 44/90
    Let’s keep the good work brothers!
     
  5. Jigsawpuzzle

    Jigsawpuzzle Fapstronaut

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  6. Jigsawpuzzle

    Jigsawpuzzle Fapstronaut

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    Should i treat this as day 0? or is Day 8 allowed
     
  7. Srisurya

    Srisurya Fapstronaut

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  8. Jigsawpuzzle

    Jigsawpuzzle Fapstronaut

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    Thats the spirit. You will win
     
    Say_Goodbye, AxBlaim, Pone and 5 others like this.
  9. the_wizard

    the_wizard Fapstronaut

    Day 01/90

    I have been away for very long time. Been on and off on nofap since my relapse after 88 days streak. Now I want to be committed again, to start over. Wish me luck.
     
  10. BSF

    BSF Fapstronaut

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    Day 16/90.

    Honestly, moving away from porn has me reevaluating what I want out of my relationship. I used to (and still do, sometimes) feel a lack of something in my relationship, and I would go to porn to satisfy it. I wanted to have with my significant other what I saw on the computer screen. Expectations I’ve been building around sex and love since I was 13. But real love isn’t like a porn video. It isn’t just gratuitous sex, where you get off to each other in more creative and absurd ways every time. It’s awkward, a little sweaty, cumbersome, and other-focused. And you have to be able to laugh with your partner, and be vulnerable, and patient. I think I was getting depressed because love isn’t one big sex fest like it is in porn. And feel like no matter how good my sex life is, I want more. I expect more. And I become depressed if it doesn’t live up to expectations. But how selfish is that? Porn is completely self centered. And while I’ve been thinking about what I can get out of sex, I’ve been neglecting to think about how I can give of myself, in love, to my partner.
    Anyway, might be a little too personal for a daily update, but these are my thoughts today. Porn is self centered. In porn, good sex is dependent on constant variety and “performance.”
    Real love is self giving, and free of expectations. Something I’ve got to work on.
     
  11. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Very well said!

     
    Say_Goodbye, AxBlaim, Pone and 5 others like this.
  12. bromor

    bromor Fapstronaut

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    Day 0 No M
    Day 255 No P

    Agh I reset today, I did some edging and consciously decided to finish it as edging long time is actually worse than just plain orgasming and be done with it. I don't feel bad and guilty, as it was a conscous decision but I need to stop slacking like this if I am to do another 90.

    Have an awesome day guys!
     
  13. charlie78

    charlie78 Fapstronaut

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  14. Verissimus

    Verissimus Fapstronaut

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    Day 2/90. It always sucks to start over, but it definitely beats staying down.
     
  15. Gurdev Thakur

    Gurdev Thakur Fapstronaut

    day 10 ^_^ , double digit in today ,, like i am facing lots of confusion these days but i will find a better balanced solution to that ,, my life is happy right now , i have some friends [virtual] , we all have a same goal of cracking pre med and we all are in that community for preparation only , we all are also doing great and i personally feels good around them , but sometimes i overdo that thing and forget my real goal , why is social interactions are so addictive , i will literally have to resist myself from wasting my time there ,, i really want to achieve my goal and i have to work hard for that , like instead of wasting times in checkin out mssgs their in group sometimes , i will ahve to utilise my time for good ,, and with that i also want to continue with my streak with no relapse ,, i really want to succeed nd will be succeed ,, so yeah to reduce my distraction , i will not open that discussion group on telegram unnecessarily ,, will focus on my studies and in th free time i will hang out their ,, ^_^
     
  16. Timothy_James

    Timothy_James Fapstronaut

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    0/90

    This week I'm going to focus on what I want to DO, not what I'm trying to avoid.
     
  17. Timothy_James

    Timothy_James Fapstronaut

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    Dude I totally agree with everything you just said. I think that fixation on our own pleasure is one of the deepest roots of porn use there is. Keep exploring that!
     
  18. SOS13

    SOS13 Fapstronaut

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    Day 3/90. and mind-blowing motivation to reach minimum 60 days
     

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