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Watched porn for the first time in 7 months

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Jnuts, Sep 9, 2020.

  1. Jnuts

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    It was not how I remembered it. My mind was conjuring up this cornucopia of whatever I wanted at the click of a mouse. It conveniently forgot about the hours of searching and not finding what I wanted.

    My wife and I were in bed and I wanted an orgasm, she did not. We decided to watch some porn together on her phone. She picked what it was. We skimmed through several videos. They were boring. I did end up with an orgasm but it was disappointing. I didn’t beat myself up after and I’m still not beating myself up now (was 2 days ago). I have no desire to watch any more and I’m actually glad I did it. It gave me a more realistic perspective of something I was idealizing.
     
  2. Interesting! Some people might call that a relapse or criticize you, but not me. It's a good feeling to have moved on!
     
  3. Jnuts

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    I would say that it is a relapse I guess. I’m going to update my counter when I’m napc and think about it. But I know from experience that beating yourself up over it just causes depression and repeated behaviour.

    Several more days under my belt and no desire the watch anything more.
     
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  4. Just one more fighter

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    interesting. it's as if the addiction is very weakened
     
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  5. Potentially you realised how stupid porn viewing can be with your partner next to you.
     
  6. Exit To Freedom

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    You have an open minded wife, that is a good thing overall. Mine is too - and has no problem with me watching porn. Unfortunately it's my problem and I have to remedy it for myself. You went a long way, and sounds like you are on track again. Congratulations for your streak and realization.
     
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  7. Jnuts

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    Actually most of my porn watching was with my wife next to me due to our insanely missmatched sex drives.
     
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  8. Jnuts

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    Still haven’t watched anything else but the desire to is back. That didn’t last long.
     
  9. Queek The HeadTakker

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    You watched porn with your wife? Why? You can do those things with your wife
     
  10. Marcus Aurelius

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    I would be careful. I've sometimes relapsed and thought that my reaction to seeing porn again after a break was proof that I was over it. But then I go back to it the next day. And the next. And the next.
     
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  11. Jnuts

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    As I explained, my wife has a very low sex drive and I have a very high one.
     

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