Time to become real men.

My question is black and white because the initial statement was black and white, which is exactly what I wanted to highlight. That statement got a lot of fanfare making me think people absorbed it as truth without questioning it.

 

It's the year 3333 and mankind has at last achieved it, enlightenment. For one thousand years we have experienced unprecedented global prosperity. The eradication of disease, hunger, and poverty are just foot notes in our annals. Humanity is fulfilled, joyous, erect. This is no false utopia and it is all thanks to the semen retainers. Their supreme awareness brought us to the second stage of civilization, but even they could not cross the final plane of evolution... until now. Thanks to the work of one courageous retainer we can now all touch enlightenment beyond our earthly forms. How did he do it? The answer was right in front of us all along.

He tapped into the energy of a herd of coomers, the beta men that are used to inseminate the babymakers. By absorbing their life-force through his rectal lining he was exalted. We can all do the same. Men. Let's not squander the next thousand years. The natural next step to semen retention is obvious.... SEMEN ABSORPTION.


*** Disclaimer
Was just thinking that South Park would run an episode on semen retention in the next few years and had fun brainstorming a direction. Hope no one is too offended.
To be clear, I do believe there are very real benefits to semen retention and in the transmutation of sexual energy. But I also enjoy satire as a tool to encourage individual thinking and dispel group think/fanaticism.

 

i was reading this with the typical south park announcer voice in my head. fckn hilarioud dude DD

 

Next time be careful with unpremeditated consequences

 

Hey, my friends, I hope you are well and safe.

Since I'm new to semen retention, I have some questions, What is the difference between semen retention and normal NOFAP? I think they are the same, but not sure!
How to transmute my sexual energy into something useful? It will be great if I can use energy into building myself.

Have a good weekend

 

The further I get in my streak (currently 33 days) the more mental mastrubation occurs. The first 20ish days were fine, now my mind is going nuts fantasizing every second i’m not consiously doing something. Obviously when I see attractive women during the day the same happens again. I’m wondering if this is part of the reboot? Are these withdrawal symptons?

That said, my lust for life is growing aswell. On my last (longer) streak I got a promotion because I worked like a maniac and it was verry easy maintainable. This motivation to be the best employee no matter what is back once again. I’m starting music lessons next wednesday and I have this excitement in me that feels like christmas when I was 6 years old. These are my ramblings for the day. Thanks for reading.

 

That's creative energy flowing and overflowing from the lower base chakras, if you believe in that.
If not, try to see it as your body noticing some piling up of nutrients. You must have heard somewhere how our body pick various components from what we eat to form sperm, the sub-product of life.
What's important is:

Now that your mind experienced this awesome state, your downfall will be devastating - we often only value something subtle when we have it taken from us. If you falter, you'll develop a new hatred towards yourself, beware. "How could I throw away something so incredible?!"

Never stop fearing, arrogance + over-confidence is a slow and insidious killer.

 

No. That's just part of being a man. That's what female attraction is designed to do. You see her, she's hot, you are interested. That's how it works.

But the part you need to focus on is how you react. If you decide to let the feeling overwhelm you, and you go home, look at porn and masturbate, then you can't get your life levelled up through this NoFap.

If you look at her, and think, ok she's hot, then move about with your day, that is ok.

Focus on your goals right now. If you get distracted by thinking about women, then force yourself to work on your goals. Just keep correcting it.

You will get better at it.

I made a lot of progress in my first reboot in music.

 

@False promise where are you man? how are you doing my friends?
I'm ok, I get a wet dream today, but I'm in control. I'm 100% focused on my goals. Wish me good luck

 

Hi David,
We think of ourselves, the human race as being superior to all other creatures. But our distortion of copulation places us beneath nature. Ejaculation while engaging in casual sex or PMO is an abomination. Sex between a loving couple however is a wondrous act.

 

So true! Especially that we produce testosterone/sperms 24/7. We men are basically hardwired to spread seed as much as possible biologically.

 

I agree with others.

As men, we are designed to react to females biologically. It's in us, period. No matter how strong you suppress it during the NoFAP/NoPMO, you can't. It's natural, it's healthy, it's beautiful to be attracted to them.

The key is HOW you react to the attraction. This is the big key. If you have been doing the NoFap journey for like an entire decade, you'll still have total attraction toward females. So it doesn't make sense to suppress it during the NoPMO journey, but it does make sense to accept it and use this motivation to help you find a girlfriend, get married, be fathers, etc. You have a crush on a girl? Great! Use the energy to make you be the BEST MAN you can be. Don't have a crush on a girl now? Great! Use that energy to make you be the BEST MAN you can be. Either way, focus on yourself.

 

I agree it's all about how you use this energy, either redirect it to self-improvement, or to PMO. If you redirect it toward self-improvement you are choosing the long painful road which leads to happiness and real satisfaction. And if you PMO you are cheating you jumped right to the prise "dopamine" without doing anything, and this is harmful because you will never be satisfied.

Life always prefers and love those who choose to get out of their comfort zone and surpass their limits.

 

Hey @False promise
How ya doing?

 

Big bro knows what's up .

 

I am trying semen retention for 30 days to start with but couple of days back i had an erotic dream and i felt i was about to get a wet dream. Any tips on how to prevent wet dream as it seems uncontrollable...

 

There's no way to prevent a wet dream. Wet dreams are natural part of being a male. If that happens, that happens. Your body is just expelling semen, that's it.

 

Yes, its definitely the most important section for one that wants to attain the highest balance within themselves. And yes, the more clean we are in other aspects of our lives the more a relapse by intentionally losing semen will feel consequential. I have had this "on and off this wagon" syndrome for the last 20 years. My longest streak of not ejaculating was 2 years, but I was not totally without lust in the mind. Being clean and free mentally from lust is much harder for me than being clean physically. But when I am both mentally and physically clean then the rewards are unspeakable. Then underpin that with a healthy diet and a spiritual practice and a healthy lifestyle and we start to glimpse what buddha and Jesus may have felt like.
I have discovered it really all comes down to true willingness and readiness to let this whole pursuit of pleasure in the sexual arena go (key word: "pursuit"). But it cant be forced or willed into a reality. I had to have sufficient experience as far as trying out all the things that I had a strong curious desire to try and experience and then taste the small amount of pleasure and the large amount of unfulfillment that followed afterwards. It seemed I had to do that over and over again, and become so fed up and sick of myself that something inside just surrenders and says "I'm done". Then Grace will do the rest. Obviously its better if we can bypass the need for experiencing it through wisdom and deep understanding, but many of us have to go through the grind even though we know that it will suck...Life is funny like that.

 

Yes, society is run backwards in many ways. Its impossible for a real man who is secure within himself and self-content to chase or court a woman. Its just not in his highest nature to do that (despite what the silly Hollywood movies and songs say). True masculine energy is axis, stability, and space. Feminine energy is dynamic and creating, and it needs to be grounded, otherwise it becomes spins out of control. The Masculine grounds this Feminine and gives it space to dance around. In a true balanced state and play of energy, the woman will make it known to the man that she wants to merge with him-- not the other way around. Also (I know from personal experience), if a man chases the woman too much, then even if she concedes, she will never respect or love him him totally. She may stay with him, particularly if he is providing economic security-- but a true surrender and love for him wont be there. But then we have to also ask ourselves the question-- "what is so special about me that a girl would feel drawn to me"? Am I really representing the qualities of a true man? Because if I am jerking off and in lust all the time, then for sure, I have nothing to offer. And by natural law, any woman that I will attract while I am in that state, will be of a lesser rate and screwed up herself.