The START 2021 STRONGER Challenge [CLOSED]

Day 1 Check in!

 

Good catch.

If you fap on 22 SEP and not on 23 Sept it wouldn't matter what timestamp you're using because you'd roll day 100 prior to the new day 01 JAN. Moral of the story, don't MO on Wednesday... I'll update the rules. Thank you....

 

Added, Sir.

Original post updated with correct info. Thank you.
I mark whole days as green or red based on adherence to my goals vs. acting out. As you pointed out, those who track it to the hour are going to be different. See my next reply to @PegasusKid

I hear ya brother. I used to mark it at 630 am or 9 pm or whatever time I relapsed. Now, anymore, if I relapse on any given day I update my counter to 1159pm on that day. The day was lost, and counted as a red day for me. Then the goal is to go the entire next day clean, thus earning "one day" on my counter. So depending on the hour of relapse (am) I might have 18 hours just to get to midnight and then another 24 hours before I get to "collect my reward" so to speak. Might not work for everybody, but I am counting good days vs bad days, and the hours are irrelevant to me, so it works.

Over 200 green days, btw this year

 

A little Monday Motivation. We are all here for the same reason...here are some of them, and some words of inspiration right here from our own cohort.

 

Roger that... updated.

 

ALRIGHT LEGENDS.... LISTEN UP

As previously stated, the original cutoff for 20 SEP has passed. All challengers have been stripped of any strikes. Using input from many participants I have adopted a scaled scoring system. Challengers will have a 1 strike per Tier - 5th strike and your'e out scoring system.

Everybody right now in the challenge qualifies for LEGEND status. Do not Act out and you remain there. Each Strike earns a demotion, until the 5th strike eliminates you from the challenge regardless of days. Strikes will start on 22 SEP. If you already messed up today... you got a freebie.

Like one participant said - everybody can end the year with some progress.... STRONGER. I wish you all the best.

It is my honor to sponsor this and I am so thrilled to see so many fellow fapstronauts wanting to do this with me.

All the Best,

BC

 

@Steppingintotheunkown .

 

Well men, I’ll take a strike. Relapse today. Learning that even good things can trigger me.

Debating whether to buckle down angry serious wither the tools or return to hiding the secret habit.

 

Yes brother. I too have felt this shame. Absolute disgust for myself - but love for myself too. If I did not love myself, I would not care. So I continue...

Proud of you TonyK. Keep having the plan in place...expect the unexpected and live every day like a boy scout.

 

@TJ_HealthUP

 

You're not hiding. You're here. With people that understand. Men. Women. Young. Old. Single. Married. Gay. Straight.

If it is not possible to have this healing in your every day life, do not concern yourself too much. I spill my guts into my journal, the only safe place for my thoughts. I prefer here because I believe I have much to learn from others and they from my experiences, a file locked away on my computer would not benefit me the same.