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I'm new to this NoFap stuff and have some questions

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Bushforest_dweller, Sep 26, 2020.

  1. Sep 26, 2020 #1
    Bushforest_dweller

    Bushforest_dweller New Fapstronaut

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    It's been a long time since I first heard about NoFap, and considering I was masturbating almost every day since the start of the quarentine in my country I got worried about porn addiction. I started 2 weeks ago and since then it's been kinda easy so far, but when talked to my brother about this matter he told me it's rather difficult to not masturbate saying that if I think it's easy there are only 3 possible explanations for that: 1) My body is getting old and it's starting to present erection-related problems, 2) I have sex everyday and 3) I'm lying and never stopped masturbating. The deal is: I'm really stopped masturbating 2 weeks ago and even though I often catch myself thinking about porn, women and masturbation, I have no difficulty when it comes to restrain myself from masurbation. Because of that, I engage in various activities every day like reading, watching films and series, playing guitar, playing video games and taking naps. Thus, my questions are: If it's being easy am I doing something wrong? Should I interrupt the challenge to check if I'm really having any erection-related problem? I hope for sincere replies for I'm really worried I might have any health problem.
     
    Bushforest_dweller, Sep 26, 2020
    Bushforest_dweller, Sep 26, 2020
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  2. Sep 26, 2020 #2
    Michael050701

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    Listen I'm 19 and I can never talk about erection-related problems. But with your last point I can really resonate because I was like you 60 something days ago. 47 days was fine and easy until I urge I didnt expect jolted me in the middle of the night. It was so strong and I felt like there was no other way I could stop it. I talked to someone about this problem and said that the reason it was easy for me was because of my base level consciousness, yeah I was aware that I was never ever gonna fap again but deep down my subconscious was ruts that needed to be fixed. Then one day I ran in to this rut, and because of that I relapsed 47 days in, for meit's not about how much you never want to masturbate again, its about building these new habits for your subconscious to recognize, to control, to discipline yourself when the urge comes. To look at it dead in the eye and tell it that you will never ever fap again. This journey is like a cup filled with black water filled with mud and dirt, until you learn to pour clean water into it that cup will remain dark forever. Build new habits, face the urge dont run away from it , and most of all dont stay down when life hits you and fall down.
     
    Michael050701, Sep 26, 2020
    Michael050701, Sep 26, 2020
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  3. Sep 26, 2020 #3
    One Eyed Owl

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    One Eyed Owl, Sep 26, 2020
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