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Day 39.. and this happened.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by madde, Apr 10, 2017.

  1. Apr 10, 2017 #1
    madde

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    Hello guys I'll be brief as much as possible but please read to see if you can say something helpful:

    I'm Not new to rebooting, I've been trying for a while (I'm not gonna tell you for how long I've been trying but I'm familiar with all the possible ups and downs of the process). I'm 31 years old and today is my 39th day of no pmo, this early morning something strange happened and it has never happened to me before: I ejaculated without masturbation!! I mean I didn't touch it. I was trying to fall asleep and I felt this strong sexual urge so I got up from bed and walked in the house, went back to bed and it's the strong urge again (like my penis is full and I have no control over), I stood up went to the other room tried to keep my mind busy... but then I was sitting on the couch thinking what should I do and suddenly I ejaculated in my pants!!! it's the first time that happened to me but it felt so natural and I didn't feel guilty!

    I wasn't fantasizing about porn or anything but it just happened and God knows I fought it so badly. But also you need to know that I quit my antidepressant a week ago and probably there is some mix effects of the withdraw, so maybe that is one of the reasons. But I read on the net that other guys experienced the same incidents before during reboot, one of the guys said he ejaculated in the gym during legs exercise..

    Anyway I know it's a relapse (although it felt very different from all the previous relapses, I didn't participate in it and didn't masturbate, no porn... and it felt more like a wet dream where you have no control over things) but how much do you think it set me back? have this happened to you before? any advice? (I sure have no intention to watch porn now as a chaser effect). Thank you.
     
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  2. Apr 10, 2017 #2
    Fringe

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    i dont think its a relapse
     
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  3. Apr 10, 2017 #3
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    Can't see how it's a relapse if it was completely involuntary (and you actually fought it).

    Doubt it's much of a setback, unless you think it'll make you tempted to look at porn (you said the opposite). There's nothing hugely wrong with O-ing. Many rebooters remain sexually active, so I'd just forget about it.
     
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  4. Apr 10, 2017 #4
    J247

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    Doesn't sound like a relapse to me (oh boy, have fun reading the responses as I'm the third to say it's not). I think it's more along the lines of a wet dream. Kinda when you're just relaxed, still needing release, and it just sort of happens.

    Keep going on your journey! Almost to the half way point!
     
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  5. Apr 10, 2017 #5
    jaydogslim

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    Did have orgasm ? I sometimes feel like I'm going to errupt . The most days I ever had was 30 but never had a wet dream.
    You definitely are doing good.
     
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  6. Apr 10, 2017 #6
    TheArtist01

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    so apparently nocturnal emissions happen even when we are not asleep. and like the others above have said it doesn't count as a relapse because it was involuntary so keep going. i am encouraged to see your progress.
     
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  7. May 16, 2020 #7
    monkmode1

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    I experienced the same on 38th day. I didnt have have an orgasm or wetdream(that I can recall), but released the semen. However, I am determined to go forward with this nofap journey.
     
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  8. Sep 28, 2020 #8
    ForeverChanges

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    What has happened to me is that sometimes when l go to the toilet l see drops of semen coming before or after peeing. It happened to me that one day l had to make an extra physical effort to do n°2 in the toilet (sorry the details) a nice amount of semen came out. It is just our body which is confused, so to say. It is no relapse, relapse would be wanky wanky like a loser and so on...
     
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  9. Sep 28, 2020 #9
    Benedicti

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    Next time go have a pee. I am not kidding. It may work a lot. Always helps me when I am getting an anaconda. And no, its not a relapse. But if you think it is, thats ok. The day counter doesnt mean anything.

    Stay strong.
     
    Benedicti, Sep 28, 2020
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  10. Sep 28, 2020 #10
    Lefitt

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    It’s not a relapse mate! Involuntary emissions ain’t counting bro, so keep going! Half way to success!
     
    Lefitt, Sep 28, 2020
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