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Opinions on wet dreams. Like it hate it? Can you stop it?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Shadow™輝ツ, May 3, 2020.

  1. Shadow™輝ツ

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    Hello guys, today I had a w dream where I felt like
    i was in it like literally I could feel being aroused by a woman I can't name lol, but it felt so real and I was fighting myself to stop but couldn't and of course this isn't the first time it had happened to me, i have had these experiences often but I just wanted to know you're guys thoughts about it, Do you like it or hate it? My opinion is this isn't controllable I have no control over it, but I dont like being wet in my bed that's my first reason to HATE it.
     
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  3. I don't like them. Reason being is most of the time I don't even feel pleasure nor do I have the sexual dream. I just find my pants slightly wet when I wake up but more often than not, my pants aren't wet but there's a stain. Also I have to have a shower to cleanse myself as I'm a Muslim and it often happens in the middle of the night when my family is sleeping.
     
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    Yeah idk sometimes i enjoy it sometimes i dont. I feel like the less aroused we are throughout the day the less likely were going to have a wet dream. But as with everything we wont be having them forever :)
     
  5. Shadow™輝ツ

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    Alright got you
    Assalamwaikum bro, yeah same for me I sometimes dont even realise that I had a wet dream until I wake up, but yeah the first thing is I shower then pray namaz.
     
  6. Shadow™輝ツ

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    As I know this happens to us only when we dont M, because when I used to M I didn't have wet dreams as often, and so now it release the excess when it has to. And about "forever" I cant tell I think it depends if you M you wont get the wet dreams often but if you dont you'll get them. Take it easy bro
     
  7. hollyman

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    yeps that suck i can relate man , u must do the fajr pray but u had a wet dream. for me its kinda akward when my family member see me do the shower in Fajr. like where are you going in this hour?

    but on the other hand some day some how, you can choose to said a no for wet dream. u see when it happen just say no and wake up. and take a pee.. its worked for me tho
     
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  8. Shadow™輝ツ

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    Lol thats awkward, but for me now during Ramadan I dont sleep till fazr but during normal days when I had wet dreams I would just skip the fazr prayer and pray it in the morning with johhor as Kaza.
     
  9. hollyman

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    tbh im kinda missed some wet dream tho . its almost 3 month of no wet dream's nor relapse (thank god) but sometime it scared me to think about 3 month without even sperm leak. idk maybe im recovering

    btw where are u come from bro ? mine from Indonesia
     
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  10. Shadow™輝ツ

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    Yeah I dont get the whole thing about wet dreams, my friends used to tell me that if I think about porn or hanki panki stuff then there is more chance to get get wet dreams, or maybe it leaks when it's too much loaded but I have had days when I had 3 wet dreams in 3 days straight now come on i cant be that much loaded with semen on me lol and I'm from Bangladesh.
     
  11. aricking

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    i got a lot of wet dreams throughout this streak,,,truth is if we dont have wet dreams,we will get more amazing benefits
     
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  12. Shadow™輝ツ

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    That’s cool but I think we should care more about the lifestyle than about benefits :) but still I like both hehe
     
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  13. aricking

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    its true we should focus on lifestyle,,,i actually started to get benefits after 140 days maybe,,,i wouldn't come that far if i was wanting just benefits,,,i changed my mindset from wanting benefits to started hating pm,,,i told to myself i hate being control by my dopamine.
     
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  14. I had one recently but actually before that I didn't have one in months, in dreams I could control. I read if you make intention and say to yourself, you won't WD then you won't and I did that a couple times but then it must've stuck to my subconscious because I just didn't want one. Also it is related to weak PC muscle apparently.
     
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    Heyyy man how you doing?

    While yeah wet dreams can be uncomfortable but for some it's a blessing, it's been more than 4 weeks since my last wet dream and I feel like I'm going to explode, but I still won't m cuz that's just not going to happen

    Can you stop them? Well if you only sleep a small amount of hours it will decrease the chance of getting a wet dream, but yeah the feeling of being wet in bed is :(
     
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  16. Shadow™輝ツ

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    Hey bro, i was wondering where you disappeared, im doing pretty well, i did watch p yesterday which im not happy about, but i did not MO. Wbu? :)
    Blessing? um idk it sucks being wet in my pants tbh lol, but i often get it either once or twice a month. Also you have a great strategy, keep at it :)
     
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