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Save an addicted teen ....

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by JustLeave07, Oct 6, 2020.

  1. JustLeave07

    JustLeave07 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys
    I am a 16 year old teen I watched this shit first time in 9th standard and since the day I masturbated for the first time it turned an addiction. I am depressed all the time and it has been two years long time . I want to cry sitting alone but manage to control myself.

    I tried to put restrictions on myself by :-

    1 Limiting YouTube ( It's a trigger for me)

    2 Stopped quora , I don't know why I get double meaning meme and pictures there.

    I have less worth than a shit I think . You all couldn't even imagine all the shit I watch is between the time 10:00 to 12:30 at night ( You can say almost 98% of I watched in my previous year is in this time) . Only in this part of time I get time to get urges and spoil my next day.

    Most of you will recommend me take a sleep at this time but I can't bcoz its my study time . I am preparing for an entrance exam ( You can google it "JEE" ) . I had to study hard and accomplish my dream of cracking it so I can't sleep at this time.

    Now I want to tell you the mentality of me when I get urges.
    1> Today I saw a bikini picture by mistake in google ads. I should fap.
    2> Today my mock test was a shit , I should fap.
    3> Today my favourite club lost the match
    so i should fap.
    4> Today I did timepass all the day on YouTube so I should fap.
    5> The intense pressure of upcoming entrance exam and the high expectations of my parents . ( My parents always trust me and hope from that I will do something great in my life , They never doubt on me which most parents do.)


    Even I read in this amazing website that 12-13 year boys are wiser than me and I am garbage and childish. I am cheating my parents and this literally the worst thing.
    I don't have any this videos or pics on my pc and phone. I google it when I get urges.

    P L E A S E H E L P

    My longest streak is 5 days and I want to extend it to infinity...
    Thank you.

    SORRY FOR POOR ENGLISH.
     
  2. Ben teks

    Ben teks Fapstronaut

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    Hey mate,
    I'm glad that you want to change your life and you have chosen a challenging way.Many think that this is normal and they destroy their life but you are among them who chooses the right path. I'm sure that you will definitely quit this addiction. You only have to change your routine. Follow some tips. Start your day with little exercise and meditation. Meditation is very important to control mind. Spend more time with your family and friends. Play some sports daily. Do those things which you like. You must have a hobby which you like the most,do it regularly. I know students have much stress of studies. Like a drug, porn and masturbation also reduces stress but give us immense emotional pain. This is 21 century. Many children grow up with porn. They enjoy porn because they think that this is reality. They think that every girl likes these things but this is not the reality. There is sex trafficking where women are kidnapped and porn shooters force them by giving them drugs to do these scenes. They torture girls a lot. And we think that the girls are enjoying but in reality they aren't. They are being tortured. Every child grows up with this mindset that they can do sex anywhere and with anyone they want because they believe in porn. Porn is just fantasy and a criminal activity. So stop watching porn as it will only give stress and divert minds. I'm sure that you will quit this addiction. You will have to release stress by playing some games or you can listen to music. Take good sleep of seven hours as it is necessary for brain. Just do what I have told you. For your exams, don't worry and don't take stress. You will do good. Change your daily lifestyle and concentrate on studies. If you face urges, don't hesitate to message me. Your friend is here. I will help you. Bye!!
     
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  3. JustLeave07

    JustLeave07 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you bro......
     
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  4. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    Welcome
    Please, start studying carefully what's happening in your mind > https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/

    First time without porn will be stressful , but if you resist , in some months you will feel reborn.

    If the first times a person relapse easly, it's okay.
    The streaks becomes even longer , day by day.
    Don't porn anymore, it's better to struggle and at the last to relapse than to look at porn.
    No more instagram pictures of models. No more erotic imagines , erotic stories or erotic asmr.
    If you experience ''flatline'' and low libido , resist.
    > https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/por...l-size-and-or-libido-are-decreasing-flatline/
    We should improve in all area of our life, just being dissatisfied or stressed makes us relapse.

    An effective weapon to overcome urges and thoughts : mindfulness.
    The brain will try to win you and to get some triggers for the seek of dopamine. Resist
     
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  5. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    intervene on the management of emotions
    what you're doing is to run away from emotions,
    instead you should accept them and feel them fully with mindfulness ,you should sharing emotions , talking to others
    try the app youper
     
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