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Escort challenge

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by need4realchg, Nov 14, 2019.

Are you struggling with paid-sex?

  1. Yes— and I would join the challenge/group

  2. No, but I would like to join too

  3. Yes— but not interested in a challenge or a group

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  1. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    I didn't know that DR does that kind of thing. Wow... Thailand and Bali have a reputation for that, yes, but not DR. Again, doesn't surprise me. Sex is everywhere.
     
  2. I don't really care about big parties to be honest. I was just saying if there is one, I would go. I'm not really afraid of catching covid because I'm pretty sure I caught it in February at a massage parlor from an Chinese prostitute. In addition, the odds of me dying from it is under 1%. But if worse comes to worst, I'll just wait until early next year.
     
  3. I understand my friend. Let me know how it goes.

    I am so tired of worrying about Covid — I wasn’t afraid of getting an std until I discovered something that looked weird on my crotch.

    I then realized I was too proud to admit I had something. I Tried praying. But It felt so hypocritical of me. I couldn’t promise God I’d never make a mistake again— I knew myself too well. I just had agony for days.

    I assume you are going through with it no matter the risks. This thread is still for you. I don’t mind that you are choosing that way — you maY want to share your experience and talk through it later. If so, I’m here for you.

    I actually think plenty of us go “active mode “ and shutdown all outside influences — because we need to go “ninja mode” order to proceed with the plans.

    So don’t worry— when you go active mode — I’m still here. You might be banging three chicks a day; you can still reach out here.

    No judgement zone.

    i have been there. I have binged on sex like a rock star.

    you want change but I understand it’s a process —- reading doesn’t fix your battle instantly. And scare tactics never work. I never use them or accept them.

    Underneath your battle with your nature, is you. I’m here for that guy. You will have a good time; just don’t stay at a Resort like my cousin and end up paying way too much especially with your chicks.

    be safe bro , May God protect you,
     
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  4. peglegb88

    peglegb88 Fapstronaut

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    Having trouble with urges at the moment, how are you guys going?
     
  5. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    Horny as always, but I'm ok. That's being honest. I haven't had sex since February 14 due to quarantine.
     
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  6. peglegb88

    peglegb88 Fapstronaut

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    That's good man. What helps you get through urges? I've already done a workout today haha
     
  7. peglegb88

    peglegb88 Fapstronaut

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    Slipped up today guys. Went and got a quick blowjob from an escort. Sorry for letting you all down.
     
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  8. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    Don't be sorry. You're honest. That's what makes you be a good man. blowjobs are awesome when getting it from girls. I know the feeling well.
     
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  9. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    Just stay at home, basically. Still in a quarantine for now. So that helps.
     
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  10. Boba

    Boba New Fapstronaut

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    I find taking a cold shower if im feeling very angsty to call up a hooker, or something - really refreshes my mindset. Or doing a solid workout so I'm tired from working out instead of finding other means to get tired. Quarantine doesn't entirely help, all cooped up unable to see folks, I think its fuelling potential perverse thoughts if you don't find alternatives for the energy.
    Cheers
     
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  11. I will tell you — making a connection with people helps with the urges.

    it might sound counter-intuitive but it works.

    also I sometimes shop on line to use the amount of money that would have been for sex towards something positive that I actually need instead of the sex I want.
     
  12. Boba

    Boba New Fapstronaut

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    Hmm thats a nifty idea. I do have a couple tools and stuff in my cart I've been wanting to buy, next time when I want to call someone up I'll buy the stuff I need and hope I don't slip the other way
     
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  13. bold0101

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    I'm struggling with urges myself. Right around the 1 week mark always seems to be the worst, and that's where I am today.
     
  14. Branchman

    Branchman Fapstronaut

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    Totally agree.
     
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  15. Teddy123

    Teddy123 Fapstronaut

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    Hi I'm new to the forum, really am struggling with escorts and I have no idea why, it's so degrading and making me feel awful. I just don't know what to do to overcome this. How are you guys doing??

    Any of you in the UK??

    Thanks
     
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  16. Good first step bro. Have you written down your experiences in a journal before ?
     
  17. Teddy123

    Teddy123 Fapstronaut

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    No not really, but definitely something I should consider heard lot of good things about it. I tried intermittent fasting, that REALLY helped out to begin with, freeded up time for me to pray and do some exercises in the morning also.
     
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  18. Jakes

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    What's up bros.. Hope everyone is good and dealing with the cravings for escorts. I know I'm doing quite well which isn't all that good considering its only been 12 days. But it is quite good for me. Had this PMO addiction for about 10 years but ever since 2015 I've been seeing escorts regularly. Regularly as in almost every single week and multiple times a week mostly. Any tips for fighting the urges? I seriously dont think theres much wrong with it if you do it every now and then.. ofcourse real girlfriends are better. But yeah, any tips guys ? I can really feel the urges, I've been regularly viewing escort sites recently so I'm definitely cutting that out
     
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  19. peglegb88

    peglegb88 Fapstronaut

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    That's good man. Unfortunately I've been twice in 2 weeks. Yeah definitely avoid looking up escort websites and classifieds. It triggers me 100%

    Also I've cut down on my caffeine usage, that's reduced urges a bit for me personally. And try to stay occupied as much as possible so you don't even think about escorts.

    All the best buddy.
     
  20. ReasonToChange

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    What's wrong about it is the potential STDs from other man spreading to that one channel aka the escort you visit and then to you, and also the escorts might unfortunately be forced into the trade via sex trafficking. That is the big problem, u never know who is willing and who is forced with a gun to their head.
     
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