The widespread normalisation of porn is rotting men since they're boys.

Deleted Account · Oct 7, 2020

It's okay man, just do some research on the subjects you are talking about. I think you are misunderstood about somethings. It will open your mind and clarify your confusions about how the world is now.

Sex does sell. Beautiful women sell things well for male and female products. Everything is sexualized because it is man's most fundmental passion and desire which can be easily manipulated.

God warned about this, it is a sin to look at women with lustful eyes and sexual deviancies are a sin against the body itself.

Struggling-Otter · Oct 7, 2020

eric9000k said: ↑

Omg getting lectured by a dude about the patriarchy makes me want to smash my head against a brick wall man I hope nofap does you a world of good my brother.
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I'm not really talking about the patriarchy though, I'm just talking about porn and the consumption of it by men, like I have said, it's the only POV I actually know and this is all my opinion. I'm sorry if it drives you so mad. And thank you, that's why I joined, I hope nofap helps me live a better life.

Ricardo26 · Oct 7, 2020

Struggling-Otter said: ↑

I hate it. It's been creating a drift between men and women. And it's so sad and frustrating that most men learn to objectify women since a very early age, we accept it and move on. It's so unfortunate how sex is present in everything and porn became so normalised. It's a really awkward situation because we can't put all the blame on the way society resorts to sex to sell everything and how ads, movies and tv shows sexualize and objectify women all the time. It's really wrong and it pisses me off because yeah, kids and teens generally don't know any better and accept it as reality. We normalise it. But we can't just point at that and clear all the blame ourselves.

I really want to reprogram my brain to stop seeing women ass vessels of pleasure. I always thought it was so wrong to treat them differently, and the fact that they don't have the same liberties and privileges as men do is wrong. But at the same time I watched porn and masturbated to women, I objectified and degraded them. And I would always think "oh, there's no problem, masturbation and porn are healthy". That's a rubbish excuse I told myself so I could keep ignoring the uncomfortable truth. Because I didn't bother to think harder. First of all, porn isn't good or healthy in any way imho. And masturbating, although I believe everyone starts touching themselves early and discovering their bodies, should be treated as something that isn't bad if it occurs, but shouldn't keep happening frequently and shouldn't carry on into adulthood.

Why aren't more people talking about masturbation and porn addiction? Why don't we treat it the same way we treat drugs and gambling addiction? We are literally abusing our body. I believe it is because sex sells, and talking about it would mean, most men would have to come to terms with the fact that yeah, they've been objectifying women most of their lives, and it's a really hard conversation most people don't want to have. I feel so gross about it, I spent more than a decade degrading and dehumanizing women, feeding sex and porn into my brain, abusing my body, emotionally abusing my partners, rewarding myself with meaningless, fake and unhealthy pleasure. And I feel so bad because my current SO knows about it and I really love her but I never stopped to think about all this, how it affects her and face this ugly, hard an uncomfortable truth. I want so bad to change my brain and the way I think, and as I said, I know I can't put all the blame in society and the porn industry.

But I sure as hell feel so pissed about how I grew up surrounded by sex, everywhere, in things that don't need to be sexualized, how I was taught that masturbating is healthy, and how there are a ton of men right now growing up like I did, and despite their best efforts, objectifying women and seeing them as different and inferior to men is gonna be ingrained in ther brain really early. I hope I am the exception and every man and boy growing up in the future is stronger and better than I am.

Sorry for this kind of rant. I've wasted countless years of my life, may be losing the love of my life too, and I just wish things changed before, for me and a ton of men growing up in the digital era. But I know it's all on me too.
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What do you mean with this degrading and dehumanizing women

Struggling-Otter · Oct 7, 2020

Ricardo26 said: ↑

What do you mean with this degrading and dehumanizing women
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By reducing everything they represent to just an object of sexual desire, they lost all their human qualities in my eyes, and I saw them as something different than a human being. Keep in mind, I'm talking about what P abuse did to me and my way of thinking.

Deleted Account · Oct 7, 2020

Yeah I see where you're coming from. Obviously the porn industry has negatively influenced many men and women around the world. Porn or any sexual content is almost unavoidable in society. Yet it's also up to the individual self to control their actions and resist any temptations. Don't give in just because it's everywhere. Work towards avoiding it.

Ricardo26 · Oct 8, 2020

EndureTheStruggle said: ↑

Yeah I see where you're coming from. Obviously the porn industry has negatively influenced many men and women around the world. Porn or any sexual content is almost unavoidable in society. Yet it's also up to the individual self to control their actions and resist any temptations. Don't give in just because it's everywhere. Work towards avoiding it.
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