Accountability Partners

Sup boys, i'm trying to best not to count days and focus on defeating my old version and making myself to be a better person.

The real enemy for me to fight againts and need to defeat is laziness, presimistic and have a great view of not objectfying women. I hope to see you guys progress and make excellent achievements.

Lets, Go.

 

Hi @Jarad999 welcome! I get you, I'm also dealing with pretty much the same things you mentioned. We can do this, you're not alone.

Day 6 check in:

Today was a great day! I spent a lot of time playing videogames, but I also spent all afternoon finishing an art project of mine. I spent my day distracted, and I really didn't think of PMO and didn't feel any urges either. I spent some time with my gf at night, had dinner together and talked a lot. I feel very happy about it.

Tomorrow I'm gonna update my CV and professional portfolio, because this weekend I want to send a lot of job applications. I still have to finish my thesis, but I'll manage to find time for it if I get a job (that's a big if).

Another small victory!

 

How is everyone doing??? I hope you all made good progress

 

Day 1 check-in:

I spent the whole day doing assignments. There was not time for PMO.
I'll go to bed early so that I don't relapse.
I know it's not a day yet. But since I'm going bed early I needed to post this.
Keep strong guys.

 

Hey, i'm checking in for another day as well. Today was a better day for me productivity wise, stayed long in the library, feel good about it. Will also go to the gym tomorrow.

i Hope all of you are also doing great

 

Hi guys i'm checking on how you guys are doing and you guys are awesome!

Do you guys have any favourite songs or artists you mostly like? Mines twenty one pilots, anybody here a fan of Bruno Mars?

 

Day 0 check-in:

Besides relapsing, day was great. I've already done 65% of all my assignments.
Somehow, I'm not feeling like shit after relapsing. Is the other way around, I feel more determinated to this commitment! I know there's a point of inflexion. But I will not reach it; it's not on my plans.
Keep calm and nofap, guys!

 

I am not sure if it will work for everyone, but coming to this forum everydaz, participating in challenges, interacting with people seems to help with my will power. I also like to read books about the masturbation addiction, that also seems to help. Right now i am reading "your brain on porn" by Gary wilson

 

Guys I really need a partner can I hop in?

 

Guys, to be honest. I've been dealing with urges and just withdrawal symptoms (the withdrawal i can handle on to)but, as i said before about my problems changing myself.

I made routines and schedules, it's about limitting myself using social media as much as possible and mobile games(because i don't have a PC), basically: 5 hours of youtube, 1 hour of discord, 1 hour of nofap, 1 hour of games. I've started to do this last week, to be specific it was on October 6. It all wen't surprisingly well, i had to be strict on myself, i had to stop when the timer was up, but yesterday and today my schedule and routines wen't downhill. When i played Among Us with people in Discord, it was super fun but it got addicting also and because i saw so many triggering pfps like anime or a attractive women, it all got to my head. After i stopped playing with them i felt regret.

It's kinda stupid i know, but i can't stop playing Among Us on Discord with these people. Today i skipped a class and played Among Us with these people on Discord, it was just one lesson i skipped but i still feel like regretment because of that, guys.

Maybe i should stop using, discord?
Maybe i should delete these people i met in discord?

What are your thoughts on this confusing story?

Edit: i'm 14 btw, but i have to hard on myself.

 

It is good that the alarm bells are ringing, even in the distance. When something impacts on an important part of your life you have to act. It may seem a small thing now, but it won't stop there. Eventually, you will be skipping entire days.

How you tackle it is up to you. But you must tackle it Jarad. Stay blessed bro.

 

Your right man,

Today i uinstalled Among Us and the Discord server i joined. It was super addicting bro, even one small habit can turn to an addiction and i must elimanate it before it gets out of hand.

Thank you!

 

Guys i'm Joining This Accountability Group, i'm "Coming" here erryday ahhahahahaha,
for real Day 43 Hard-Mode Check In Let's Gooooooooooooooooooooooooo "Epic Prehistoric Battle Music Playing in the Background"

 

Day 44 Hard-Mode Checkin In : i can finally Ascend into the Sky !! AHAHHAHAHAHHA, why aren't you guys posting your progress, yall Lazy as Fuck , if you can't even hold yourself accountable to make notes of your progress how do you expect your brain to take your recovery seriously , Good Luck with NoFap Bros AHAHHAHAHAHHAHA Let's Goooooooooooooooooooooooo WooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooW

 

Searching for a accountability partner, if someone is intrested

 

I Got Your Back Fam, Let's Go, I'm Day 45 Hard-Mode Checking In, i'm Flat-Lining As Heeeeeeeell , LoL, i Don't know if Flat Lining is the same to all people, but i feel a little numb and my scenes are heightened, it's a weird feeling like feeling really present and awake yet at the same time feeling that mild refrigerator hmm brewing in the background , i think i'm going throw another layer of spiritual transformation where the draining voice is coming to the surface , so now i can shine the light of my consciousness on it to diminish it, it's a crucial step towards NoFap Success, the clarity of the mind and having inner peace and feeling free and at ease with the present moment really helps with NoFap, Because you don't have that demon mind , that monkey on your back always blaming , draining energy, unsatisfied , feeling like a victim, needs enemies and conflict, loves drama, pain, misery & suffering, then when one is free of that, there is no longer the compulsive need to distract ourselves or escape from the present moment, instead of trying to find techniques to Battle PMO, you just don't have it !!
"Have A Good Breakfast, Because Tonight, We Dine, In HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELL"
-300 Spartans-