The START 2021 STRONGER Challenge [CLOSED]

This honestly is pretty true.

Agreed. I have basically given myself 3 months to get myself 2 months going into the New Year.

 

I relapsed, now what? Am i out of challange? @BrohkenCompass

 

There's a bunch of info on the 7 and 14 day cycle on nofap about testosterone levels, that makes us prone to relapse around those time periods. There was a video on this site about this but I can't find it. Search youtube.

 

Shopping for ladies underwear in the bathroom not a safe place. You'll know for next time. Get back to basics. Stay strong.

 

I can relate to this. This is why I'm grateful for discovering nofap. In the past I couldn't see myself and I just thought that was the person who I was. As we have the knowledge of nofap our lives will never be the same again. My intention for years has been not to fap, even though Iv failed many times just having that intention and giving it my all has improved my life and self respect.

 

Great perspective on this. If I manage to stay clean for 80 days out of the last quarter of the year that would be a lot of progress for me, given where I was in June of this year. In one sense, if I'm acting out once every couple of weeks with a quick release, that is a lot of improvement over the hours-long binges that would go on for days with all of the associated psychological/emotional and physical issues. My goal is to stay 100% clean but if I have a minor reset and don't revert to the really bad addict behavior I'm okay with that. That still gets me to a place where I am healthier emotionally and my personal relationships are much better. Plus intimacy with the wife is working in terms of "male health" and it is a meaningful loving experience with her.

 

Day 23:
Remember to love yourself. Honestly what has kept me going.

 

Same story for my unfortunately. Another strike. Even though I could still acumulate 77 days, but I may be out of this challenge before then.

 

Day 22. @Jefe Rojo great poem you posted!

Some guys are falling...
Be strong everyone, because this is about our souls

 

Day 20

 

Alright good, but didn't get any inbox, maybe you sent it to wrong person? Anyway, thats right, this is my 2nd strike. But im confused, it says 5 strikes and then you are out but on my Tier it says 2 Strikes MAX. What does that mean exactly? Im i out of the tier or what?