My family member asked me how to access porn videos.

I think if you’re going to advise him to give up such thoughts, you have no choice but to admit your problem with pornography. If you trust his judgment and his secret-keeping ability, you can go this way.
Apart from this, I have no idea what to do about this.
Wishing you the best.

 

That seems a good place to start. But I would actually go on and reveal the serious problem it has developed into. I think this would be easier face-to-face. I think this would help you as much as it helps him. But you have to be willing to be honest about your addiction. If you only admit part of your problem he will never see the danger of his choices. Good luck.

 

You could perhaps refer to any general addiction here,
Say you encountered an article recently how P Is a very much Existential Addiction and how it’s taken a toll on people.
You could search up such an article online easily and use words from that, and suggest him to be advised.
If you are close enough(it appears perhaps you are), you could just send any such article to him!


OR

You could just say you don’t know one shit about this stuff.


Good luck,
Be aware, don’t access those websites and harass yourself.

 

If you are not close and comfortable, I think you should probably just say no, you won't help him access those. And leave it at that. Sometimes it's ok just to say no. We don't always have to explain ourselves. He'll probably drop it.

If you're comfortable enough, you could say that if he ever wants to talk about stopping porn, he could come to you about it. He's a grown man, though, and you can only shape his behavior in these areas so much.

You should protect yourself, if there isn't trust. Be a model of good behavior without lecturing him on it, and maybe he'll open up to you first.