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who's virgin here

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by ndaty, Sep 2, 2020.

  1. Minsc

    Minsc Fapstronaut

    No, had sex with a lady for the first time close to my 32'nd birthday. It wasn't something I was in to with her, too many alarm bells going off in my head. Had sex with her three times and haven't had sex with another since. I feel the lessons I learned from my encounter with her were far more important than the sex.

    In a way, I still feel virgin in spirit as I have yet to give myself to the one. I can confirm, sex does not make a person an adult. :)
     
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  2. Going on 28 in November and still a virgin. My friend once made a little joke that we were part of the terminally single club. He has a GF now lol. I have never been in a relationship either, it is insanely difficult to even tolerate myself let alone love myself in a way.
     
  3. White Sheep

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    I am a virgin too. I am 25. I have never kissed someone. When I thought I was going to stay alone, my dear appeared. So never lose your hope, well I lost it and my dear came anyway... XD
    The kiss will come soon :oops:
     
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  4. Queek The HeadTakker

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    I am , with 22 , i kissed and had many opportunities to loose it , but PMO prevented me from that
     
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  5. I'm virgin.When I think about it I don't see any problem with it and I'm proud of it.As a matter of fact, I have serious problems in every area of my life.In addition to these, I am a university student and my department is very hard.So life is just a war for me.All I want is to be able to achieve something.Girls have no contribution to me, they are all a waste of time.Maybe having a few useful companions would help me, but in this era everyone thinks about themselves...
     
  6. I've heard someone say that a guy is practically a virgin until he has had sex at least 100 times and I think there's truth to that. Like you, I'm not quite there yet and I don't feel much different from back when I had 0 experience.
     
  7. Sister,you are precious and you have the potential to accomplish many things...We're talking about virginity here. You know,matings ,hanging outs etc. The simple fact that ,i see a lot of men waste their potential, energy, money and time into getting girls.In addition, they are dealing with a lot of whims, shit tests, and nonsense.And also many girls seem happy to make men crawl.I have no time to deal with this nonsense,i have nothing to gain in return... Also I have no problem with women. To tell the truth i learned a lot from the two women in my life.My mother and my sister...Even one woman can change many things in this world.So I wish you the best in your journey.
     
  8. goodmimosa

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    I'm a virgin (for religious reasons) 19yrs old

    So having sex is better than being a virgin and watching porn..... Right?

    I want YES OR NO for this question
     
  9. unimportant

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    25, virgin. Had a girlfriend 5 years ago, we would grind through clothing, nothing ever exposed (she was religious, what made me end it eventually).

    I went through many waves of frustration early on. Now-a-days it really doesn't bug me. I would like a wife and eventually kids, and those things will come in time surely, or not. Ages ago I found peace of mind on the topic.
     
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  10. officer123

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    I am a virgin too (26 yrs old) and PIED destroyed every opportunity I had to have sex. But now I am determined to change that. Even if I dont succeed, not feeling like shit everytime I use pornography is award enough.
     
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  11. WOODROW

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    I am a virgin by the grace of God. Being a Bible student and occupied with spiritual matters I have no time for women+all that goes with dating+being married.
     
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  12. 23 Virgin my friends
     
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  13. Nautica

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    Me. I've been facially unattractive since highschool. Working on that now, however, but not for woman or sex, but for my career.
     
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  14. SREENII

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    24 yr old virgin..before joining nofap i dreamt of having sex with many women..now i hate sex and don't wanna loose my energy, semen and happiness
     
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  15. James Duncan Halpert

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    Okay, good for you? Not sure what you're getting at in terms of what I said, but if that's working out for you then great.
     
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  16. Gambler Kaiji

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    26, I never concerned myself about it because my life has been always busy with work and school. If it ever does happen I’d want it to occur naturally with someone I actually like. But until then I’ll keep to my self and my hobbies.
     
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  17. I am 35 virgin, and I am proud of it.
    When I was younger I always wanted to lose it, but now I am proud of it.
    I've got better things in my life, so I don't feel that this is a cure or something.
     
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  18. Branchman

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    24 and still virgin, by choice.
     
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  19. Branchman

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    You'll succed, everything is in the mind (at least almost).
     
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  20. Sir_Ed

    Sir_Ed New Fapstronaut

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    Me, 36 year old virgin. I am more focused on myself now while i am on NoFap by working out and improve myself and I dont worry much about or how I am going to lose my virginity because I am teaching myself to focus on myself and only the important things in life.
     
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