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I need help guys... (extreme horniness)

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Starman123, Oct 18, 2020.

  1. Oct 18, 2020 #1
    Starman123

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    I'm 6+months free from PMO and any external stimulation such as touching, peeping, fantasising on purpose, etc. This has been going on so well. I've had a lot of ups and downs along the way. Specifically more downs that ups and that's just the withdrawal symptoms as far I know.

    Now, I feel absolutely and completely recovered and rebooted.

    But now I have another problem.

    Horniness is my next issue. I've been acting out on horniness for the past week (not relapse) , but I've been acting out on my past fantasies even though I want to get rid of them. And this was my goal in the beginning. To get rid of my fetish and become a normal, Confident individual. And I think you also maybe thinking that I'm more than 6months free and I must be alright, but no. These days I rarely get (P) flashbacks. But I get a lot of urges and temptations to relapse. The main killer here is horniness.

    I want you guys's advise on how i can cope with this. And how I can become more far away from my fetishes (my fetish is femdom btw). I really wanna focus on my studies but I'm really getting distracted with this horniness.

    The social restrictions due to covid 19 limits opportunities to go outside and I just don't know what to do... I really don't want to relapse but whenever I become horny, I start doubting my recovery and I become more inclined and relaxed regarding my addiction. Simply, the seriousness is fading away.

    Please advise me
     
    Starman123, Oct 18, 2020
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  2. Oct 18, 2020 #2
    mrhlg

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    I'm new in the nofap community, but I think I can help you. When I feel horny and/or fantasizing too much about sex and stuff like this, I sit in a comfort place and meditate. I've been using an app, Lojong, I think it is available in english (I'm brazilian). If you don't want to meditate, try to learn something new about what you like, sports, chemistry, whatever. Good luck and be strong
     
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  3. Oct 18, 2020 #3
    Shadow™輝ツ

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    My man, you worry too much, all I could say is remember why you started this journey, if you relapse, you sill waste half of your 18 year old life, and if you do it, you will regret it so much, I've been there and look how far behind I have come just by a single relapse, usually breaking a big streak makes you more horny later on or maybe it was just in my case, also try to include meditation and do deep breaths while you get the urges.
    Remember God is watching, and this sin will make him upset, I understand how you feel. Do not get manipulated by your brain. I dont know what it is but I myself have relapsed at 6 month streak twice, and its same for me that I lose my seriousness as months go by, and I have realized how much I have lost by being foolish, but it was too late. It is the shaytan who wants you to fail, be stronger than him, also do pray, it helps. And be SURE NOT TO VISIT YOUTUBE, as your so horny now, I would suggest you to go monk mode, leave technology for a week till you get yourself together, because trust me, your brain is going to be tempted
     
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  4. Oct 18, 2020 #4
    Starman123

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    Thats actually what I should do. Even this morning I made an excuse to watch YouTube to educate myself of my addiction, but there are just so many triggering thumbnails. I failed so many times to lower my gaze and look away.

    The thing that irritates me the most is that I'm starting to do stuff that I didn't do for the past 6months. Like I never acted on or even did anything with my horniness. But now it's just becoming normal.

    I do see satans patterns. He leads us to relapse by small things. And I'm in that state. I need to get out of this cycle.

    Thanks for sharing your experience as well.
     
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  5. Oct 19, 2020 #5
    pump20

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    Well, being horny is very important because it makes the body stronger. Give body sometime to adjust.
     
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