Gosh damn it's tough, seeing women's breast sticking out...

i will pass on that..dont like them too much..guess they all are the rudest ppl in the world (see what i did there?generalised just like u did )

 

I don't know which group you are referring to but basically you are saying that your point of view is the correct one. People would say that we here are crazy and stupid. Just because you are different doesn't make you wrong! Also the society is following this direction just because everybody does that. Not because it's right. Stereotypes change , and so does everyone else. Don't you hate it when you are so easily manipulated? It reminds me of the slavery of Porn!

 

I cannot win with you. If I tell you that Aussie women are the least friendliest in the world, you'll just accuse me of generalisation. So what is your point besides accusing me of a logical fallacy?

 

And so what are you going to offer them? Or are you looking for a servant robot?

 

It's not bad to admire attractive women. Just limit your stares to 1 or 2 seconds and then look away and move on with your life. If you are serious about rebooting then it shouldn't stop you.

OR, and I know this is a crazy idea, go talk to them. "I don't want to bother you, but my name is __ and I have been struck from across the room by your beauty. May I sit with you/have your number?" or something along those lines.

You could say "I'm a porn addict in the midst of a 90 day reboot and I need a sponsor. If I can make it the whole 90 days, will you be impressed and have sex with me on day 91?" and of course she'll say no.

"Then is it alright if I take a picture of you with my phone and fap to it later?" she will be pissed and say no and/or call the police.

This is the difference between porn, and women in the real world. That's what I think to keep myself clean. I pretend that if I do it, it will become public knowledge to everyone

 

Ogling is not a good habit, focusing on beauty is not a good habit. Especially if you do get a girlfriend, are you going to spend time only admiring "beautiful women". Focus on yourself before you start considering a relationship. For the sake of both parties. Stay strong! And maybe try talking to everyone instead of just people you're interested in dating. It's a good start.

 

I understand your struggles.. I'm really hating this new "short shorts" fashion trend that seems to have struck a year or two ago in popular culture.. I honestly can't believe that having your butt hanging out in public is a thing now. I do notice though, that the longer I abstain, the less it seems to bother me. I guess that's something..

 

I think the worst thing about this type of addiction is that you can be tempted anytime and anywhere. You never know when a woman with very provocative clothes or a sex scene on TV or an triggering add will appear.

 

First post alert! This is the thing I have the most trouble with, and it's the hardest thing to straighten out. I'm on day 38 of no masturbation or porn, and it hasn't been as tough as I had thought it would be. Anyways I digress. My point is that every fibre of my being is scanning the world for beautiful/sexy/scantily clad females. I've described it like being the terminator for years. It's tiring sometimes. Anyway I'm going to 2 music festivals this summer, where the fields and the lack of clothes are going to be literally everywhere I look.
I'm not sure what my point is, other than agreeing how tough it can be for a man conditioned in this world, to go through a reboot. The wrong attitude is constantly advertised and reinforced everywhere you look. Be mindful of it. Don't beat yourself up about it, and work on it every single day. Good luck to everyone, and spread the word that empathy is our only hope.