Phone sex anyone?

I've always thought that it's probably some fat chick in her 50's on the other end of the line who's watching tv while talking to you. Not a turnon for me.

 

Phone sex=PORN!!! Don't even think about that stuff plus it raises your phone bill.

 

Yea I have along with all the other forms . I find I would search for the posh, narcissistic, London mixed race girl on there and just hit skip for the others ( mostly who sound like aunty bessy doing the ironing with a fag in their mouths) Obsessively Searching for the perfect hit to Finnish to. Round and round I’d go pressing 2 till eventually I’d ran out of credit or settled for the naughtiest on there at that time. I Called the operator and got them to block the 0900 numbers over a year ago. But recently got a new phone where I made a few calls to them again. Trying to tell myself it wasn’t porn so it’s ok. Have blocked again now.

 

Yes, the memories. Sometimes all those backmatter ads in magazines were more thrilling than the main pages themselves. They got a lot of MO attention. Ha!

.

 

Phone sex is sort of dying I'm sure, its just again titilation you talk dirty with someone who you don't even KNOW what they look like, its just the precursor to camming...

 

TRIGGER WARNING




I am currently addicted to phone sex and using other apps (Skype, KIK, discord, linkello) to voice with women, trans, and men.

I have spent thousands of dollars on phonesex lines and I know the person on the other line isn’t the picture they use, and that’s where the fantasy goes into play from me about “you look like this...I’ve been thinking about this person who looks like this...” I have even had one woman mess up during a call and instead of using her name on the website, she slipped and said her real name.

When using apps it’s after I’ve been looking at porn for hours and need a better fix and I don’t care the gender or reason or need, just some sort of fix to get off and release.

I’ve deleted all my accounts and refuse to go back to my behavior of phone and voice sex. I’m tired of wasting money, and I even had a side collection of cash just for phone sex. I looked my statements and cried at how much money I pissed away on an addiction. It’s no different than wasting on drugs or alcohol .

 

You gotta reward yourself it takes an ENORMOUS amount of strength to walk away, as it has this intense pull, you anticipate it, you get "high" doing it and then you feel like shit afterwards, you know the underlying issue is loneliness which is an issue for myself and I'm sure a lot of guys here...

Next time you feel the urge to call, put the money in a jar and at the end of the month use it for something nice for YOU like a nice dinner, a piece of clothing, a movie whatever...I guarantee you'll feel better offering yourself positive reinforcement...Also consider a CSAT therapist they can help you process and shift towards more productive things

 

thank you for your support. You are right about loneliness, and it is the reason most of the time. I am going to do what you suggested, just need accountability.

what I really want is a streak and enough time to distance myself for all the bad shit I have done.

 

I'm a youngfag, so I don't really think of these kinds of things

 

I also have wasted much money on phone sex. Many time it is scam when I have paid in advnace but service denied. Each time I repent the money wasted so carelessly.

 

Yes I’m female and I would get on a lot of apps and talk to guys over the phone. It wasn’t paid or anything but many times when we would get on the phone the conversation would evolve into phone sex.

A lot of guys liked my voice for some reason idk but I’m honestly disgusted that I did that with men. I’d always get them off over the phone and it really wasn’t enjoyable for me and I felt kinda weird and used by the men I did phone sex with. It was terrible. Now that ive been 60 days clean of porn, I feel like I have a greater respect for myself and don’t want to just do things because a guy says so.

I feel like porn really fucked up my boundaries and you gotta figure out why you’re into what you’re into and what porn may have got you into that.

It got so bad that when I would sleep around with guys they thought I was being super fake because I guess I would subconsciously imitate the Moans porn stars would make. I didn’t realize the effects until people criticized me for it

 

There were a couple of times in which I was trying to break free from porn, I was triggered, and began looking for some sex audio recordings, you know women moaning and dirty talks by women, I was trying to trick my self saying that I hadn't relapsed because I hadn't masturbated or watched any porn, but it was just a matter of minutes before my addictive brain craves a PMO session heavily, and I relapse.

I think I used this audio to trigger myself on purpose and find some kind of excuse like, "I'm super horny, I can't take it anymore, need to PMO". It was just me self abusing myself.