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[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. AlignedStoic

    AlignedStoic Fapstronaut

    23 y/o aspiring day trader, looking to level up my daily output. I gave up Porn many years ago and never watch it but cannot seem to surpass 21ish days of NOFAP. I relapsed this morning and will now be Documenting the next 90 Days as a punishment for repeatedly relapsing.

    During my experience in NoFap I am aware of the patterns of my urges.

    1) I wake up at roughly 6am most days however the moments I stay in bed for longer despite being awake are the moments urges arise

    2) I typically follow a very low dopamine lifestyle (search dopamine detox for details). Whenever I have a moment of indulgence from my usual day-to-day activities e.g. cheat meal and excess TV, I have increased urges. This does not mean I can never relax and decompress but if I take it too far it can lead to significant sexual urges.

    3) At the 3 week point of NoFap I consistently relapse, this is a mark I cannot seem to get past. Urges at this point become significantly greater and usually after a brief moment of not being present I relapse and then say to myself "what a waste it wasn't even worth it."

    I am looking to give up PMO altogether in order to increase the energy, focus and clarity I have to maximize the amount of time spent on tasks that move the needle on pursuits that matter to me and minimize everything else.

    This was a brief summary of my intention and focus, Day 1 begins tomorrow which is 21/10/20.
     
    Teutão, dandausa, Vendidad and 3 others like this.
  2. Freedomfighter99

    Freedomfighter99 Fapstronaut

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    Day4/90. Was about to orgasm but somehow withheld
     
    dandausa, Vendidad, bromor and 3 others like this.
  3. lookingtochange

    lookingtochange Fapstronaut

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    Day 1/90. Haven't posted here in a long time. That was the problem. I need the consistency, and develop the habit of using this forum again. It has helped me so much, I'm not sure why I got complacent. Going to make this a habit now. I have the desire right now, but I know that fades away. So I need to take this one day at a time.
     
  4. black shadow

    black shadow Fapstronaut

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    Day 1 started still orgasm almost happen with all my dirty thoughts but hey I can combat all this with all ur help but at least I will try pm first
     
  5. Joeman997

    Joeman997 Fapstronaut

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  6. Neo313

    Neo313 Fapstronaut

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    Day 5/90
     
  7. Monke mode

    Monke mode Fapstronaut

  8. Golden-Balls

    Golden-Balls Fapstronaut

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    :emoji_punch: what you have my friend is a girl magnet.
     
    Neo313, dandausa, Vendidad and 4 others like this.
  9. Golden-Balls

    Golden-Balls Fapstronaut

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  10. vicicool

    vicicool Fapstronaut

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    Day 71
    whatever happens... Always get back up. Don‘t get tired of Fighting.
    Keep the Warrior Spirit.
    :emoji_fire::emoji_fire::emoji_fire:
     
    Neo313, Pone, Gef.71 and 8 others like this.
  11. 1 week. Frustrating day today for unrelated reasons. Feel very alone and misunderstood. It's on the tough days though that we have to reaffirm our resolve to heal. No one ever said this would be easy.
     
    Pone, Gef.71, dandausa and 7 others like this.
  12. aragorn1

    aragorn1 Fapstronaut

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  13. Prateek25

    Prateek25 New Fapstronaut

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    I am in .. I did for 18 days long without PMO but on 19 day I masturbate but without porn.
    That's make me 22day on PMO and 4 days on PM
    Now it's 5th days but now I am having urgers of watching porn , I am controlling it too much but kept on thinking about ,...
    Can someone help what should I do , should watch to statify urger or keep fighting
     
    Neo313, Pone, dandausa and 5 others like this.
  14. Keep fighting every time you give in it will get worse and worse find something else to do with your time get out of the house if your urges is really strong spend time with others or get some tasks done go for a drive or a walk shopping if you want to don’t let the urges control you because you will regret giving in your trying to quit right? Then the best medicine is abstinence
     
    Neo313, Pone, Gef.71 and 7 others like this.
  15. Mr. Forrest

    Mr. Forrest Fapstronaut

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  16. bromor

    bromor Fapstronaut

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    Day 4

    Let's goooo :)
     
    Neo313, Pone, Gef.71 and 6 others like this.
  17. Merry Terry

    Merry Terry Fapstronaut

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    This is day 23 of 90.
    I joined this forum 352 days ago. Of those 352 days, I spend 311 days without doing PMO.
     
    bromor, Pone, Gef.71 and 3 others like this.

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