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What are the reasons that you're here?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by BloodyM, Jul 18, 2020.

  1. drac16

    drac16 Fapstronaut

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    It's refreshing to engage with people who know my struggle. When I cave in to pornography or masturbation, the people of NoFap don't disbelieve me, nor are they shocked. They completely understand. That's why I love this site.
     
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  2. DaSaltyPancake

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    I'm here because I want to reverse the negative effects of masturbation and porn subs for the past 4-5ish years. I--thankfully--never got too far into real porn. I have watched it multiple times in the past, but I managed to leave before it left a strong hold on me. Though, overall, my motivation is this: I want to experience love to the fullest degree. We can all remember it when we were younger: the butterflies, the hair twirling, the feeling just hands touching causing a euphoric feeling. I want to get that back. To reignite my youthful vigor and restore the gravitas to sexuality in a culture that seeks to normalize it.
     
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  3. I am here because I feel like this community is watching my back. Otherwise, porn is just one convenient click away.
     
  4. I keep coming back here because I feel as if I have something more. Something hidden inside of me that's been put on mute and needs to be released.
     
  5. mythdunk

    mythdunk Fapstronaut

    For me, I've spent most of my life addicted to PMO from around the age of 18 and I am now 49! I'm literally attempting to find a cure to over three decades of PMO abuse. I got married to a lovely lady last year that I have been with for 20 years. I have lovely step children and recently became a granddad. I've had enough wasting my hours, days, months and years away. I want to live free of PMO. My first attempt ended recently at 32 days and I got quite depressed about how a stressful situation was all it took to break my first streak. I'm at the beginning of my second attempt. I am still determined to do this but am a bit more realistic as to how hard breaking three decades behavior is going to be.
     
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  6. I have come to nofap to stop my masturbation addiction because it was getting really out of hand. I had tried everything to defeat this addiction but nothing really worked out, so I have come to nofap to heal my life.
     
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  7. REBOOT PEPITO

    REBOOT PEPITO Fapstronaut

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    have a better life and recover full health (mental and physical).
     
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  8. ThePeakWae

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    It´s because society is weak, we are failing at investing in ourselves and as such we also fail at investing in others, it´s like Jordan Peterson says: "Go Clean up your Room", a lot of people dont even do that.

    In my case I realized I´ve been building up too many dreams and I ´ve to be realistical about the fact that I´m low middle class, with a family living on rent, in a house full of junk and I´ve to be at peak to be able to reach my full potential and live like nobody else.

    Nobody in my home can help me, reach this, nobody knows I´m doing this, case I´m too ashamed to admit I was a fap addict that had moments where I fapped twice a day, it wasnt healthy I see that now, during regular College I could never get to this point, but after making the shift to Zoom classes I now know, I wont find a good job in history, or anyother Area if I dont flex now, I used to be so so lazy and my family enabled me, now I wanna quit and live for the peak.
     
  9. josedelamuerte

    josedelamuerte Fapstronaut

    Erectile. Dysfunction.

    Hadn't been for that I'd be watching porn right now.
     
  10. ThePeakWae

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    It can be scary AF to have one of those, almost had one of those in the middle of a college class, while sitting and I was using some rough jeans.

    fortunately it happened just that one time, but it´s scary if you cant control it properly.
     
  11. Benedicti

    Benedicti Fapstronaut

    A mundane reason: PMO was making my productivity go down the drain. I am here because I want to focus.
    A spiritual reason: it is a sin, one of the most offensive sins. I am here because I am contrite and I seek Baptism.
     
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