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Did you ever got caught by a family member or friends/colleagues fapping (or trying to)?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by ThePeakWae, Oct 23, 2020.

  1. ThePeakWae

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    I got caught 3 times, I initially felt ashamed but couldnt stop even after that.

    1st time was my mom, I was fapping while pretending to read on the bed.
    2nd, It was my aunt in summer vacations while I was on the couch.
    3rd was on a trip to Venice by my room Colleagues, I got lucky the whole thing didnt got to the ears of the professors.
     
  2. Venkat19

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    Are you planning to avoid such incidents again?
     
  3. ThePeakWae

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    1st I dont do more read on bed faps, so thats fixed, but my parents can still catch me fapping while I sit when I´m in the computer, the nighly faps In my bed never got caught so I probably kept those going for way too long in retrospect due to not being caught, but when I sit, I feel more nervous about fapping for sure.

    2nd: I already had started to reduce my faps in my other family members places, but it´s very hard to not masturbate even once a month, however, I took precautions to not do another couch fap attempt ever.

    For the 3rd: I wont be having more outside country trips and even in those inside the country I may have from time to time, I wont be fapping there, already tried nofap in those conditions last year and it worked, I got lucky the first time I got caught was by younger people outside of my class in my last year of highschool, If I ever get caught another time, the stakes will be higher so I wont do it, learned my lesson there.

    Plus since I´m on NoFap I´m safe.
     
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  4. CrimsnBlade

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    I don't know how many times I've been caught. Too many to count. Never stopped me because I was heavily addicted to all of it. I'm still fighting through all of it but getting better. You're not alone though.
     
  5. ThePeakWae

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    Let me guess, even after being caught, there was no talk about the event afterwards right?
     
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  6. CrimsnBlade

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    No no, my family is notorious for sweeping everything under the rug. If we don't talk about it, it didn't happen and doesn't have to be dealt with. Amazing the damage that can cause.

    I've been caught by my mom, my dad, my brother, my wife, friends in college, the list goes on. I've probably been seen in public before doing it, I don't know to be honest, but I know that I've taken some pretty stupid risks before.
     
  7. Queek The HeadTakker

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  8. ThePeakWae

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    Lucky you, I´ve noticed that there´s a moment while someone tries to fap, that the person stops paying attention to his surroundings (like listening the steps of someone coming close to the door to the room), which is usually how many get caught, if I´m listening the footsteps while I fap, I´m gonna stop immediately so the problem is when you dont hear them.
     
  9. ThePeakWae

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    You are even luckier, there are news on the newspaper, of folks that can have "problems" if cops or other authorities catch them doing it, dont do it public, that has to be where one draws a line, with SJWs nowadays a person can be cancelled and bullied with the slightest of transgressions.
     
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  10. ruso

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    One time when I was in my 20s, I had porn blasting through my head phones at like 3 AM.......or so I thought. It turned out that the headphones were disconnected the whole time and the porn was blasting through the speakers. LOL.

    As I was getting into it, my dad slammed the door open as was squinting and said “seriously?!” and closed they door again.

    Ahh. Those days of being 300% in my head, and having all kinds of destructive habits.
     
  11. CrimsnBlade

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    Ya I heard a comedian talk about that before in a stand up, like once you get set on doing whatever sexual thing you're going to do the entire world disappears and you'll ignore everything in order to get the end result. Kinda scary.
     
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  12. ThePeakWae

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    I kid you not, this is actually a common YAC warning when it comes to watching anime like Monster Mosume, the fear that other people can listen what goes on in the show is real.
     
  13. CrimsnBlade

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    Oh trust me I know how lucky I am not to have had repercussions from what I've done in the past other than embarrassment. I'm grateful for it. It was so stupid of me but like I said, I lost sight of the entire world and all that mattered was that.
     
  14. ThePeakWae

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    You arent the only one, I had colleagues in the trip where I fapped, that decided to have sex and the girl got pregnant, it was a stressful event, case my professors had to go get the next day pills when the trip was supposed to be around 1 week´s time, some people just dont think before their sexual instincts kick in.

    Not having to deal with that, is even luckier.
     
  15. ruso

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    I get that completely. I used to pmo in the bathroom of my second job. Pretty much every day. I felt trapped/needed a better job, had no supervision either. But all that led to was constant dissatisfaction and probably kept me at that job longer than I needed.
     
  16. Queek The HeadTakker

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    I think my luck is that i was a quick fapper , it was usually 15min session , and other times i fapped in safe places like when i was taking shower , sooo yeah i was a sneaky fapper , at least if is there anything to be proud about fap, it is never being cought ahahah , but i had close calls
     
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  17. Nearly got caught multiple times, but never actually caught in the act.

    I was doing it in my room once and I was under the impression that the door was closed, so I was watching Porn on my laptop and I see, in the very periphery of my vision, my dad just casually passing by my room, talking to someone on the phone. We both did a massive double take; me because I needed go quickly shut down the tab (there's a 3 key shortcut to it) and him because he couldn't understand why I was shaking my hand so vigorously. I passed it off as a reslly annoying scratch on my thigh and he bought it. If he'd come in the room, I doubt I'd have been able to hide my boner though.

    Another near miss was when I was home alone doing it in the living room and nobody was supposed to reach home for another 4 hours. I was really getting into it when I thought I heard a car door slam shut. I turned off the AC and pull back the curtains and I see my dad and one of his associates mere feet away from the door. I didn't have enough time to shut down the PC, put on my clothes and set the TV to an appropriate channel (I had it open to a porn channel to get into the mood while I surfed the web for a better video), so I had to compromise- I switched off the TV, forced the PC to shut down by holding down the power button and kicked my clothes under a sofa and ran- naked, and with a raging boner- halfway across the house to my bedroom, just as the door opened. If they'd so much as turned the TV back on, it would have opened up on lesbian porn and I'm sure my dad wouldn't be particularly appreciative of such a display in front of his colleague.

    Yet another time was when I was in a bathroom doing it and my neighbor decided to enter the bathroom without knocking because she thought it was empty. The only thing that saved me was a a barrier of frosted glass and a shower curtain that separated me in the shower from her using the toilet. It wasn't nearly as sexy as they portray it in porn; good luck maintaining an erection in that situation. The worst part was that even after she finished her business and left, I had to stay there for the better part of an hour until she left so she wouldn't realise that I'd been in the shower (it wasn't turned on; I went in there just to masturbate and leave) when she used it. My mom and her looked around for me but I had to stay there, quiet and half horned up, ignoring them. They deduced that I'd either gone out to buy some stuff or was just ignoring them and in my room so I was safe.

    I was around 14-15 when all of that happened. I'm 20 now. I don't make the same mistakes and I don't MO nearly as much anymore so I'm safe on multiple fronts; I live on my own now anyway. I can't imagine the embarrassment I'd feel if anyone saw me with my penis in my hand and my face indicative of ecstasy; y'all got some real nerves of steel lol
     
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  18. ThePeakWae

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    Thats the secret, two of the times I got caught in the act, where times, my fantasies took me too long to fap and in the first, I purposedly tried to hold back the fapping 2 times before getting caught, quick fapping works 2nd best if you dont wanna get caught (Nofap being the 1st)
     
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  19. Saythatagain

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    I see one issue of the motive behind masturbating. Was the thrill of getting caught or a closer call of getting busted exciting you to keep doing it or were you just that horned up that the environment around you didn’t matter? It’s very easy for fetish’s to come out of our addiction to MO and PMO.
     
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  20. ThePeakWae

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    Yeah thats a interesting way to look at it, I could see the thrill of that getting more people hooked up, than the dopamine release.

    Like how some drugs sell more by being the illegal forbidden fruit, rather than being legal.
     
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