anybody else just wanna give up on trying?

It will take time to recover.
Read about rebooting articles.
We can win! Dont worry.

 

I feel the same sometimes too my friend. I was really bad before, which spurred me on to try get better. Now I am same as you. A few times a week and the porn isn't so bad. But we should be aiming to push on and remove this from our lives altogether. Just remember the really low times when it was bad. You don't want to slip back to that if something goes wrong in life. We feel so much better mentally and physically when we are rid of it. Like we can reach our full potential. Don't you want that great feeling of a porn free life? Addiction free. Motivation. Energy. Clarity.

Don't give up. Take a breather and be kinder to yourself, then push on and quit for good. We have come a long way, but we can go further. There is nothing more resilient than the human spirit. Good luck on your journey! It's not over yet!

 

Hey man,

I know it's hard and your last relapse is probably not your last. That's because I know that I'm also going to relapse sooner or later. But we shouldn't give up, 3 times a day to 3 times a week is a great achievement. You could use tools to lift some of the burden off your will power. I personally use porn blockers and they have been helping me a lot. I would have been probably relapsing every other day if porn was a click away. You should make some changes to your environment so it could help you achieve your goals.
If you want to try good porn blockers, I have listed some here:
https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...ower-an-aid-easy-streaks.272658/#post-2490733

 

Could you share that blocker with us??

That's funny, cuz I was searching for a solution for reddit. The only solution I've found is that you could block reddit images and videos so you get text-only reddit. However, this could only be done on PCs not mobiles. If I found anything, I will let you know.

 

I was watching a video the other day where a wise fellow said: Even though we fall into the same repeated acts (which are not ever essentially different from one to the other), the very fact that we are disappointed, crestfallen, or feeling bad about it means that we are not really the same person as before, especially when compared with earlier days when we weren't so bothered or even not concerned at all about such behaviors. The point is, we have grown interiorly with the passage of time, even amid the falls. Worse than the falls is giving up. The real heroism is not achieving recovery so much as never ceasing in the trying. That's something one never has to fail at.

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At least once a day in the first few weeks. Now, maybe once a week.

 

Am I the only one who just found out recently that reddit has porn on it. I have been in there for 8 years now and haven’t even accidentally found any