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21 yo first time NoFap

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by collegegoober, Oct 25, 2020.

  1. collegegoober

    collegegoober Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone I am male, 21 years old. Ive been m'ing to porn for about 8 years ... started with my first nut and basically snowballed to atleast once a day since i was 13-ish. Ive always been a horny kid if that makes sense... so being able to nut was basically the opening of the floodgates. The affects on me physically is (I believe) Low T which lead to a stunt pf some of my male features. and mentally, although i was in denial is being socially awkward esp with females.. and poor motivation with school(not work). I plan on doing this cold turkey.. as im honestly disgusted with everything sex related honestly. I decided yesterday to stop because i feel like im in a turning point and i am genuinely tired of being a slave to this and sick of the evil. I hope to get to know alot of you this wil be a long journey overdue.
     
  2. 007_JamesBond

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    Good luck. When we are sick and tired then we make changes in life. Our physical bodies get used to lots of things and when we stop then it rebels. When temptation comes tell your physical body your in charge, "peace, be still."
     
  3. usuario_cambiante

    usuario_cambiante Fapstronaut

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    Hola, tambien soy nuevo aqui, quiero que puedas vencerter a ti mismo en esto de la pornografia. Cuando sientas que no puedas mas has algo que te distraiga por un momento y piensa en la meta que tienes de tener una vida libre de porno.:)
     
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  4. collegegoober

    collegegoober Fapstronaut

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    Gracias de donde eres
     
  5. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    Welcome to the community. The start you described from 13 was the same as mine. You won't be judged here, whatever you think of yourself. :) I have quoted what you said about the physical effects of masturbating to porn for 8 years. What do you mean about your male features?
     
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  6. collegegoober

    collegegoober Fapstronaut

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    Hey thanks for the assuring words. What does it mean to quote me in this forum? My belief is that pmo lowered my natural male hormones. Most have beards in my fam, and i just BARELY started getting some growth. Ive also always had a stubborn visceral fat that is always there despite rest of my body looking handsome. Also feeling low energy and never "macho" and confident. Just my strong belief. And this being my first ever third day no relapse, I already feel more confident, outgoing, and generally higher energy.
     
  7. IGY

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    It means what I have done here^ with your question. I picked out a specific part of your post which appeared above my reply i.e. "The affects on me physically is (I believe) Low T which lead to a stunt pf some of my male features."
    I see. Well, you might be right. You could get a simple blood test for the hormone testosterone and ask if it is in the normal range. It might not be a hormone issue. It is encouraging that you already feel more confident, outgoing and have more energy. :)
     
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  8. collegegoober

    collegegoober Fapstronaut

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    Ok thanks alot man and you are likely right. Ha. And I see you are at 480 days...Ive already read a few stories about withdrawal symtoms, in your experience can you share when these peaked for you? this part im anxiious for thank you.
     
  9. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap!!!
     
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  10. Dove-ly

    Dove-ly Fapstronaut

    I'm on the same boat, friend. Self-awareness is the first step, so good on on you. Let's get through this together.
     
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  11. smart@rj14

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    Good luck man hope to help and get help
     
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