WHY IS TRANS PORN SO ADDICTIVE??

And at the moment i am currently suffering from my own issues due to my addictions with porn and the escalating factors of it. For instance as ive said numerous times on here already, im 19 years old and just recently saw a ts escort and it was one of if not the worst mistake ive made in my life thus far, the details are on my account under a thread called porn ruined my life if anyone wanted to give it a read and see if it can help them and possibly be a warning to how bad this addiction can be. But anyways, I still feel so bad guilty and shameful about what i did. I have feelings of little to no self worth, i feel like half a man and hate what i see in the mirror. I feel terrible and saddened for my family having to have me in their life a stupid degenerate perverted person who would act out such a thing and most of all i feel i can have no real future because of the shame and humiliation i carry around with me, from this thing. I wish i can take that moment back. Dont give in to these programmed temptations guys. If your knee deep in addiction to pmo, make all the effort you can to stop immediately now! Best of luck and thank you

 

I (the beast inside) loves/ed trans porn. But its no worse than any other niche of porn. If you fap to it and it casues you pain afterwards, then it is wrong for you.

@Victimofcircumstamce9977 i'm almost 40 and have spent a fortune on escorts. I have zero regrets because I enjoyed every encounter and am free from historical #metoo accusations. IThe beast in me lives tgirl porn but have been too terrified to visit an escort. To sooth your sadness, see the person that you visiited as a fellow human being who has bills to pay and hopes and aspirations and your service paid toward that. That's how I justified my time with escorts. I am quiting all now to be with a woman I love. But as a single man, I had no responsibilities.

 

Man how you were to terrified to actually make that move just like many other dudes is how i thought i would turn out. But honestly i think i had all the right ingredients in the making for this to happen. Being molested at a young age, getting hooked on substance abuse and porn addiction, seeing a few escorts then eventually a ts one almost seemed inevitable to make the full recipe. I hope to be so far removed from all this one day that the shame humiliation and embarrassment will subside and eventually be non existent and not effective in making me feel or think a certain way.

 

Yes it's fucked imagine it was a dude setting you . It's bizzare . In think because when we see this we somehow see a women overall . Yet she has the same mind sex drive as us . So in a way we know exactly were it's going to go . And we probably get turned on by that . And because you see a female it overides the nasties ..Because it's like nothing before. Then when the dust settles you realise you've been in a weird fantasy and feel sick disgusted and ashamed because of the reality. It's a trick on our male brain sex drive biology. Put a male face on that sucka that shit wouldn't be happening

 

After some time on trans porn i've begin to wanna fuck one, being fucked actually. At first i was in denial, but watch those really feminine trans woman make me horny as fuck! Few years later i've ended up trying and was cool. AND YES i know its super fucked up, but is what i ended up liking and theres nothing i can do about but try to avoid have sex with them. Although i like women more, sometimes i look for some trans escort. But i will never assume this to anyone that i know on real life.

 

I'm unconvinced trans porn is inherently more addictive than any other porn. If it is more addictive for you, its probably because its so different from anything you will normally experience as a straight man. Its something you're hard wired to love (feminine traits), but with a twist. In other words, its the novelty of it and that's what fuels porn addiction in the first place.

At the very least, abstain from porn for a while before you start actively seeking out transgender partners. You don't want to end up in the bedroom with some poor person and fail to get a boner because it turns out you aren't really into it.

 

Good advice. Some people are genuinely attracted to trans people, but as @Ahiphena said, it's best to make sure before you go and have a bad time.

 

I started out with trans porn when I was 12. I never really looked at anything else. There is nothing wrong with escalating your taste. If you escalate to trans porn or gay porn, it is because deep down you just like it, always liked it. Porn is not to blame in my opinion. And there is nothing wrong with trans porn or gay porn, even when you are straight! It is normal to be curious guys! Do not be a transphobe or homophobe!

 

I agree that some people might not want to admit that they are attracted to trans women or people of the same sex for whatever reason (and there is homophobia and transphobia on this site, you are correct), but I also believe there is some truth to the theory that porn can cause us to search for content that we deem as more extreme or novel after we get used to seeing the "normal" stuff. It is hard to say as an onlooker who is and isn't attracted to XYZ, but we need to be honest with ourselves and admit what we genuinely like. Sometimes we don't even know ourselves.

That is why there has been such a persistent debate on this topic. And also fear and shame. We need to get rid of those things as well.

 

I think its the novelty, again like trans women are something different and NEW and we don't encounter trans women much in real life, much less SEEING one having sex its like WOW this is crazy...but again like its the dopamine hit, the novelty, trans women are NEW... and different

Like its the fantasy, I'd FANTASIZE about being with a trans woman while watching trans porn but would I BE with a trans woman in real life? No I prefer to date cis gendered women, its just the novelty and the escalation..

 

For me it was the rush and escape into something taboo that really got my heart rate going. Wanting to let go and be seduced by someone really skilled in the art of sex and for me to just surrender to this mythical sexual creature. But to be honest the majority of them are a shit lay, have a horrible attitude, don’t seduce me at all like I’d fantasised about. And I’m left feeling like killing myself for the next few weeks after. F@#king waste of life and money really. I am attracted to someone that tries and works really hard to look like a beautiful woman. But the longer I’ve had breaks from it. The more weird it seems some chick with a Willy wanting me to touch it urr! I’ve spoke to a few of them after about the men that visit them and they say they’re all addicted and majority feel so bad about themselves after. It has a very addictive nature. The initial surge of adrenaline and dopamine for an intense rush. Used to escape difficult feelings usually negative towards ones self. Then the act followed by despair and worthlessness. They’re just a bunch of selfish f@#k ups really taking advantage of traumatised men so that they can fill that never ending pit of greed and emptiness. But I guess they’re just trying to survive in this difficult life too and have a lot of problems themselves. I don’t think it’s very healthy at all that dark messed up world.

 

marijuana does same damages to your brain as porn, quit both

 

U were almost there 54days and u were having dreams of u watching porn. Have this similar experience during booting at same 52days it took 2weeks more and when d urges come I don't feel pressure in my d*CK to fap, from that spot I easily compressed the urges till 90days and I was free

 

You’re addicted because it’s novel and new and it’s weird in the sense that you’re disgusted by it first but have a level of intrigue that gets back into it.

had the same issue with gangbang porn and would keep fantasizing about that but it’s really just disgusting if you get into the reality of it all

 

Exactly this. At the peak of a person's addiction, they won't think twice about consuming such depraved material because they require perpetual novelty to achieve the same thrill that they got the first time they ever saw porn. My addiction has diminished considerably since I started NoFap 18 months ago, and it nauseates me to think about some of the shit I used to watch back when I was a hardcore coomer.

 

I'm more than happy to hear other people's experiences related to this topic, but can we not use words like "disgusting" and "depraved" when talking about trans people please?
@Monkeybear @Mr. Kruger

 

I wasn't referencing trans porn in my most recent post; I just meant fetish porn in general. I've never even been into trans porn.

 

It's tough, I got nothing agains trans, in fact I have empathy and respect. I spent time in Thailand and well I seen a lot and don't have a problem per say nor would I blame any of them.

But yeah I got hooked on trans porn and I acted out with escort and to be honest I enjoyed it but still prefer women, but porn kept fucking with my mind and been able to access it on tap easily really screwed with my mind and brought me all sorts of OCD thoughts and the like.

Big dopamine rush and all that, so yes it's addictive.

Best thing is to just go cold turkey on it, because it can easily be re-sparked which can be beyond annoying, especially when you're naturally cursed with OCD thinking.

 

Its like any other drug the way the neurons and chemicals connect in your brain when pmoing. The more you do it over time the more you develop a tolerance the more you need “higher doses” to like you said above achieve that same thrill u got the first time u indulged. Just like any other drug really. The examples are out there. Abstaining from pmo for a very long time and possibly ever you change and rewire your brain and your back to yourself again. Dont give up and keep moving ahead.

 

I’m very glad to see other heterosexual men have issues like I do with trans “she male” type of porn! Years ago I stumbled upon vids of this nature and nothing about it was arousing. It was men in no way passable as women and I was relieved it did nothing for me, but then a few years later, the industry seemed to blow up in popularity and the “females” started becoming incredibly gorgeous. The queen of such material “Bailey Jay” had gotten me completely hooked and I followed her down the masterbation rabbit hole so bad that I got extremely confused. It actually had nothing to do with her having a penis, she was just an incredibly attractive and arousing person...but what does that make me if I am completely aroused by her other then her penis but I know that she is really a man????