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Struggling with new thoughts

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by rifrafrod, Nov 9, 2020.

  1. rifrafrod

    rifrafrod Fapstronaut

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    I'm a 16yo male and have managed to accumulate a 77 day streak (previous highest way 17 days). I honestly don't think about porn that much anymore and when I do, manage to push the thoughts out of my head before they develop.

    The downside to this is I've developed new thoughts and feelings - specifically I really want to get intimate (have sex) with real girls. These thoughts are really annoying and distracting and they're making it hard for me to concentrate while studying for exams.

    Any suggestions on how to get rid of these thoughts? Thanks.
     
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  2. RQ7

    RQ7 Fapstronaut

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    Same here, fap don't even matter I just want girls ahaha
    I don't have the answer either,just stay optimistic and say to yourself to chill because you are badass cool guy and soon you gonna f*** !!

    Best wishes
     
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  3. I notice i get attracted to unattractive girls the more along in the streak I'm in. The only thing i don't enjoy about nofap lol
    It is awful
     
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  4. Can relate. I think one way to overcome this is to really be into the subjects you study. I mean, you literally (somehow) need to find studying more enjoyable and interesting than this sexual activity. This attitude should probably allow you to stay super focused and thus succeed.
    It might also be fruitfull to reject the desire to engage in this sort of activity itself (temporarily, I guess?). That's what I usually do, I try get it through my head ('I don't need it'. 'Not in the near future' or something like that, lol) and so when these desires and 'thoughts' come I reply: 'Blah, whatever' and just continue studying :).
    In a nutshell, the goal is to focus on your studies (by being motivated enough) and to reject (at least temporarily) anything that distracts you, whatever it is, really.
    Just my experience, though.
     
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  5. SickSicko

    SickSicko Fapstronaut

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    Hahahahaha this is funny......and truth...:emoji_cold_sweat:
     
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  6. and I'm not even drinking! Totally going to stay sober till that desperation goes away.
     

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