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My Motivation. 40 reasons.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by TheGhettoLife, Jul 7, 2015.

  1. TheGhettoLife

    TheGhettoLife Fapstronaut

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    How did I Motivate myself? During my 1st attempt (this is my 3rd), I would read the pdf file to get my daily inspiration dose and would write down every reason which would get me excited.

    They helped immensely to stay on track. Because when I would get strong urges to fap off, I would skim through the list and change my focus from desperation to inspiration.

    You might say that it didn't really help me, but that's not true. I've set goals to reach 30 and then 50 days and succeeded both time. Not only I've got a taste of the benefits I've also learned how to make it easier for myself.

    I learned to pause and ask myself if next action I'm about to do (e.g. image search ' hot women in bikini') is a step towards failure. If it's yes I would stop. So far this trial has been easiest so far (it's 100 days this time).

    Reasons

    • 1) Clarity of mind, no mental clutter
    • 2) Better stamina in sports
    • 3) Absence of depression, as in "there's actually nothing wrong with me"
    • 4) Better short term memory, grasp conversations, sharp and clear mind
    • 5) Feeling worthy of hottest girls
    • 6) Interacting with people goes from nuisance to fun activity
    • 7) Facial hair grows faster
    • 8) Music sounds better
    • 9) Being cool with awkward situations
    • 10) Past events are remembered better
    • 11) Movies watched in one sitting, rather than interrupting it with distractions
    • 12) Feeling of being really alive and feeling of having/being a powerful spirit
    • 13) Better looking skin
    • 14) Free, genuine belly laugh
    • 15) Appreciation and admiration of women's inner and outer beauty
    • 16) Less sleep is needed to feel rested
    • 17) Much less irritability
    • 18) Destructive erections
    • 19) Improved chest, neck and shoulders musculature (without exercise in a particular case)
    • 20) Vibrant and alive looking eyes
    • 21) Voice is now clear
    • 22) Reduced rage and anger
    • 23) Movies, novels and art are appreciated much more
    • 24) Better dream recollection
    • 25) More wisdom on various subjects, without actually studying them. As in mind gets better at making connections.
    • 26) Easier to get up in the morning
    • 27) Like Neo in the Matrix, getting heightened senses and intuition
    • 28) Enjoying company of kids and older folks
    • 29) No more craving for sugar and alcohol
    • 30) Urge to expand your mind
    • 31) No more angry outbursts around the family
    • 32) "Annoying" things females do are now appreciated
    • 33) A tangible magnetic connection with chicks
    • 34) Chores are now easier to perform
    • 35) Seeing "big picture" in life better
    • 36) Ability to look at women and feel her, sense if her energy is good or bad
    • 37) Ability to relate chicks like friends and seeing them flock to you
    • 38) Nothing stresses you out anymore
    • 39) Men respect you more
    • 40) Men flinch in your presence
    You can read it for yourself (over 100 pages there) and you willl find a story behind each of these reasons. http://www.reuniting.info/download/pdf/0.BENEFITS.pdf
     
  2. Surrender

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    Awesome. I recognize some of these pro's. Keep at it man.
     
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