Sex or not? For rebooted teenager please help i beg (done the 90 days)

i won't suggest having sex at such young age, wait for atleast 2 years to turn into an adult if can't wait until marriage (for moral purpose)
That girl you mentioned wanting to date you might only have physical attraction towards you and not real love so it might not last very long

 

Bruh wait. Get your head right.
Talk to your parents. However scary or weird it may seem, just consult them. They will guide you correctly.

Don’t ask these important questions about your life to a bunch of P addicts who don’t know one shit about what’s good for you.

Talk to your parents. Please do.

 

Do you love her? Do you feel a connection with her? Can you talk with her about things that are important to you? Do you feel love for her? These are the important questions. Sexuality is not about the act, it's about connecting with another person who means a lot to you.

 

Ignore everyone for a moment. One of the points of this forum is that people rewire their brain from wanting artificial sexual stimulants to desire real people. Sex is not bad. Don't give yourself anxiety over this. Now with this in mind, do you have other anxiety, are there other reasons why you don't want to have sex, or sex with her? No need to answer here, the point is to be honest with yourself.
I'm not saying you should have sex, just saying that it wouldn't ruin your progress.

 

1. You won't lose nofap benefits for having sex.
2. Do you want to have sex with her? If not, tell that to her and make sure she respects your boundaries.
3. Do you feel like you're ready to have sex? If not, then don't.

 

It's totally ok to refuse sex with someone. You don't owe her anything, and she doesn't owe you anything. Always respect what people tell you, and expect the same from them.

However, rebooting is meant to wipe porn from our brains so we can build a healthy sexual lifestyle, and you have a chance to do that. Being able to have normal sex in a normal relationship is what every guy on this site does a reboot for, and you're well past the normal time for a reboot.

If you feel like you're being forced or coerced, definitely do not have sex. However, if it seems fun and you like her, this is definitely the time to try it out.

 

I wish I was in your situation. If I were you I would do it. But don't forget to use condoms. You can't allow yourself at such a young age to raise kids. You are nervous, I understand you, but if she likes you why do you think to refuse her offer? You can start another 100 days. At least you don't watch porn. You say that you are 16 right? Has this girl the same age as you? The thing is that conservative household sucks. They will never understand you. You want to live and to explore things. Maybe sex is not the most important thing in the world. But why you should not have fun in life? Would you hurt her feelings and not be together with her anymore? Do you like her? Does anyone of you both coming from a conservative family? At least I wouldn't say that your parents, because you will never know how they will react to it? And also she has to keep that in secret otherwise you will get alot of trouble man. I can smell that trouble sometimes.