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Salam u aleykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatu brothers,

I found a beautiful video today. It tells about the day of judgement. You have to watch it:



I wish you all a great ramadan. Give your best and enjoy the days.

 

Very powerful video and also those that are in the recommended section

 

PLEASE HELP!!
I am in a really bad state right now. I keep on trying to do this without any significant success. Today I M'd, AGAIN! This is my 5th or 6th relapse so far. My first streak was 12 days but ever since I can't reach more that 5. I pray a lot and go to the mosque but I am afraid. I hope God will forgive me and I hope you can help me too, somehow. I am 13 years old and all my friends masturbate regularly but I don't want to be like them. I know it's bad but for some reason I keep coming back to it. Can you please give me some advice on this matter as I really can't talk about this to anyone else. THANKS IN ADVANCE.

 

salam brother we are in the last ten days of Ramadan as you know begin a Muslim one must take advantage of these last ten nights of Ramadan laylatul qadr ask Allah for forgiveness may allah make it easy for you

 

Hey brother,

I have to admit you are an awesome boy. You are so young and already trying to fight against this and you pray and go to the mosque. Allah will insha allah forgive you because you are trying your best and you are a loyal believer masha allah. When I was in your age I also relapsed during Ramadan and I felt ashamed because of it. But later when I grew older I became wiser and stronger and you know we need to fall down to learn how to stand up again.

So stand up and fight. Avoid the triggers, read the Quran and keep praying and fast and fight as long you can and pray to Allah for forgiveness. Recognize the filth in PMO and keep away from it and enjoy the last days.

I know how you feel. But it will go away again and you will be happier and more successful.

May Allah guide us all

Good luck my brother. You are a good human and you will win.

 

I am 29yrs old. Parents planning nikkah for me in coming months. Been a PMO addict for the last 15yrs. It has ruined a major part of my life till now. Had tried many ways to abstrain from it, jogging, workout, travel, socialize, path of allah, prayer, etc..etc.. But have relapsed soon.. Not more than 5 days i have crossed without mastribating. Such a hell. I want to get rid of. Came across this website yesterday. Its my confession. I am a sinner. I am ruining my life. My god given abilities. I want to change..

 

Bro,
One must have guts to accept his mistakes.your Confession says that you need change.You are in the right forum.Set a goal of PMO for minimum 30 Days .
30 Days means No Porn,No Masturbation & No Orgasm.
Your brain needs recovery now it has to unlock the porn addict Pattern.
Register your day to day progress.
Advance wishes for your healthy married life.
STAY STRONG AND SUCCEED.

 

Hey brother,

watch this



Only because you will marry it doesn't mean it will be going to be easier for you. You will have to fight your addiction no matter what happens. The first step is to recognize the filth in PMO. Watching this video will help you with this.

 

i would postpone marriage as you might have ED as a result of this. I know i have


I repent then i do it again even though i prayed few times this month. I must be destined for hell because Satan is chained this month... we're responsible for our actions entirely this month without satanic influence... Ya Allah help me

 

Brother,

don't just pray a few times. Pray 5 times everyday and read one Sura of the Quran everyday and insha allah Allah will keep you away from the bad habits. Only Allah knows about our souls my brother. Never give up. Read Quran, Pray, Listen to nasheed and your faith will get stronger. Think of Allah every second. He will see you every second for the rest of your life. So think about this before you look at filth the next time.

Asalamu aleykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatu.

 

Eid Mubarak everyone! Ramadan has allowed the fight against PMO to be easier. Inshallah it will be easy after as well! Do checkin more often if necessary. Iblees has been released.

 

Aslamu aleykum brothers and Allahu barik fikun may Allah guide us and further protect us from the urges. May Allah keep the Sheytan away from us as far as he kept him away from us during Ramadan my brothers. I felt the urges releasing after the last day of Ramadan subhan allah. God keeps his promises. But during Ramadan we grew stronger and we will succeed against Iblees insha allah. But don't give up, don't let your streak go and if you lose, then fight again. I went through this a lot of times my brothers. I felt so often and I was so ashamed writing it down on this thread but after that I was proud of myself that I did. And failing is a part of winning. We win because we are trying to fight. Imagine a warrior who is fighting in a war. Even if he gets killed he did a really big good deed by trying to fight and he fought as long as he could until he felt. But I tell you what's wrong. If you run away from your enemy that's cowardly. I relapsed so many times I can't count it anymore but I always tried again and again and so do you and slowly I got more and more days. Do you know what I'm trying to say?

Nobody is perfect my brothers. But we can always move in the direction of perfection. Follow the light of Allah, the light of your creator, look forward, don't follow the ones who are far away from the path of Allah. Don't be blind. See with your heart and you will have the best view. May Allah make us of the people who are following the right track and may Allah guide or families and friends and make them of the believers and keep them away from temptation. I know it's hard sometimes withstanding the feelings to watch this stuff. I know it. But men you have to close your eyes and run through it because if you don't Iblis and his followers will slowly get you away from the path of Allah and you will find your self in the middle of nothing.

What a beautiful existence Allah gave us my brothers. What a beautiful supply and what a beautiful Ummah

Asalam u aleykum

 

@ezmon Thank You for the kind note!

 

It's a lot easier said than done. If you don't pray once u can't just flick a switch and do five a day...

You meant good but the way u come across you're hardcore...

 

Read Ayat Kursi.

In the morning and in the evening. Its gives protection from the devil and bad spirits - the whispers in your ear will go.

Reading it in morning will provide protection until nightfall.

Reading it in evening /nightfall will provide protection until morning

Alhumdlilah day's been easy except temptation staring at me which caused a natural reaction and semi discharge as opposed to "hands on"

 

@Taqwaman Oh man I know how you feel now but please don't let this bother you too much my brother. The fact that you are trying to avoid it is just awesome and sometimes you fall during the process. I relapsed so often and I think about it regularly and I know that it's freakin hard but you know it's possible and isn't the most important thing that you try ??? So please don't give up, just go on. Imagine you go to school and felt on the floor. Wouldn't you further go after standing up again?

So just try further. I mean you reched freakin 40 days so what's the deal. Be proud of ya

 

Hey my brother,

it is possible. Why ? Because I did it. Last time I prayed was maybe two years ago. Maybe one or two days before Ramadan started I started to think about learning how to pray. I don't remember anymore why I actually wanted to do this but I tried. I came across a site and taught myself what to say. I already knew Al Fatiha and Qulhu Allahu Ahad and only had to learn some new verses. After that I started to pray instantly and from the next day I didn't only pray 5 times but also read one Sura of the Quran.

Everything is possible. But just ask yourself. Do you want to do it ? Praying 5 times a day for 5 Minutes each time is not really hard. But you have to motivate yourself and believe in yourself and then Allah will guide you. And if I did it, then you can do it too. Don't say it's too hard. I didn't say it's easy but it's far away from impossible. Keep in mind the value of your faith in Allah. You are right, you're not going to get from 0 to 100 in one time, but you can develop.

Good luck.