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Paid Fun!?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by EnterTheMatrix, Nov 25, 2020.

  1. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

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    So I have to share this, the thing which makes me watch porn again is this paid fun girls on instagram and dating aps. They send me message to take online sex services and I end up taking there number and chatting them . But as what I came to know they ended up all fakes. I gave two of them money to check what they gave but they immediately blocked me. But even though I know they are fake but after they message me and after I look at their profile picture which would be a sexy girl I can't control myself from texting them and have a chat and them capitalising me to extract money from me and obviously waste my time.And after they end up fake I end up watching porn to release frustration somewhere. So just tell me friends , what should I do?
     
  2. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    So much for the fun, right?
     
  3. ShadyPerson

    ShadyPerson Fapstronaut

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    Bruh what? So you keep paying some girls that have never given you anything back and you "can't control yourself" and end up doing it all over again? Like you do realize you are losing actual money to what can only be described as the highest form of idiocy? Like pmo I can understand but this is just beyond any reason. Get some professional help if you seriously can't just bring yourself to stop. This is in no way, shape or form healthy.
     
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  4. thinking_differently

    thinking_differently Fapstronaut

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    Long press on the app icon, And Hit Uninstall/Delete.
     
  5. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

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    Yeah I understand all this myself but they keep the sexiest and pretties girl's picture in their profile and I get lured into the conversation. But I have now blocked all those and I am controlling myself from it now
     
  6. ShadyPerson

    ShadyPerson Fapstronaut

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    If you keep struggling with this, you should really get help. I know sex-related compulsions don't seem to be taken seriously in mental health, but anyone can see that compulsively paying for something that never gets delivered isn't healthy or normal sexual behaviour.

    But if you can control yourself now, good for you. Also the advice of thinking_differently about deleting those apps isn't all that bad either.
     
  7. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, Thank you so much to help me with your suggestions
     
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  8. thinking_differently

    thinking_differently Fapstronaut

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    Did you delete it yet?

    It’s important that you first get out of the cycle. That’s phase 1.
    Then you work on gaining control. And them you face the world and get used to this new normal state.
    It’s long, hard. But you've first gotta get out of the cycle.
     
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  9. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    If I were you I'd delete those apps. Protect your wallet.

    Also these girls will never care about you. Find one who does
     

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