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Need Halp ! Edging again!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by make_change, Nov 25, 2020.

  1. make_change

    make_change Fapstronaut

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    How do i stop edging and turn myself around NOW. I know if I carry on like this and lose control im going to fall into a relapse again. I feel like im only a step away from a relapse. But its not over yet im still behind the line. Im hanging on guys! NEED SOME HELP!! Im 112 days pmo free currently
     
  2. OhWhenThe

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    Some people say you need to observe the urge and let it pass ... personally for me that just doesn't work, maybe I just don't have that level of control but if I just sit there and do nothing my mind will be going crazy with thoughts and I'll be at massive risk of relapsing. Only thing that works for me is just getting out of the house and going for a walk, you're not going to relapse when you're outside(well, I'd hope not). Only come back when you feel that you're over it.
     
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  3. Denis1234

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    Hey,if you ever have the urge to masturbate or edge,don't do it. Instead do some push-ups or wash your face with cold water,eat healthy and block all porn sites! Stay strong and don't relapse,relapsing is for losers (i ain't calling you a loser so don't get me wrong). Good luck,my friend!
     
  4. make_change

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    Hi guys thanks for the advice. But ive been edging for 6 days now. Is it time to bust a nut and restart otherwise im afraid that im just going to continue edging and that is more harmful to my brain. I feel like this may be the best way at this moment. I been avoiding acting out because i dont want to go through the after effects of guilt shame etc but i think im delaying what is eventually going to happen better sooner than later righ? What is your advice ??
     
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  5. Denis1234

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    Just forget you're addicted to edging,focus on your goals and your future,don't mess your life up for 10-30 seconds of pleasure :). Good luck and stay strong!
     
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  6. make_change

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    Thanks man i wil do my best. Im not going to reset my counter as its only been 5 - 10 min edging in the 6 days. One part of me says no need to reset the counter and the part says you gone too far you must reset ?
     
  7. Edging is a relapse itself. Set a goal for yourself. Relapse is far better than edging.
    I mean take a look, you’re edging and you are arousing your penis, your scrotum veins and testis. If you don’t ejaculate after edging then it may end up as varicocele. If you’re edging then either go for full relapse or simply don’t edge.
    Take cold shower, exercise, meditate, set a goal.
     
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  8. make_change

    make_change Fapstronaut

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    Many people differ on this. I haven't been extreme in my edging i haven't spent hours and days edging. 5 -10 mins is the most for about 6 days now, no extreme material. I guess this stil could be enough to make you feel like its never going to end and you fallen in too deep and thats how it feels for me. Or maybe this is the inner addict trying to convince me to act out.

    I keep going down same path of edging after a long streak. Its almost very suttle at the start barley noticable, it may come from looking at a attractive girl on the street for a sec too long or hearing something on the radio or a friend which brings back a memmory and you feel aroused and wet. 3 - 4 weeks later before you know it your on the breach of acting out. And you could almost connect the dots way back. I find myself comming back on the forum and expressing the same thing over and over again. I dont see it comming. I feel like edging is almost like a seperate addiction to pmo.
     
  9. Backagainagain

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    I struggle with this constantly bro. Sometimes hours long edging binges sometimes small session multiple times a day for days. It's terrible. Is it a relapse? Probably? But it doesn't matter! STOP NOW! Going all the way to reset a streak is a cope. I don't know why anyone would tell you to fall off. It's always better to hold on and keep going.
    In my experience if you break the regular edge sessions after 3 or so days you are way stronger.
    If you do cop out after a few days of edging the instant relief is nice but the next few days are the worst.

    112 days is an insane effort. You should be proud! You should be willing to forgive yourself for such a small blip on such a long streak
     
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  10. Don't do it man, the moment you're edging you're already using again. It's so much worse than jacking it for 5 minutes and orgasming. You're keeping your dopamine elevated for hours and hours and hours and conditioning yourself to porn again. If you keep doing this the withdrawal is only going to get worse, longer and more intense.
     
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  11. make_change

    make_change Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man I overall agree with your approach & attitude to this.

    I get your point!

    The thing with this edging business is that it just creeps up on you and you dont see it comming. Its like a dot thats barely noticeable in the beginning and then gets bigger each day, and can take weeks until you realy start to edge. I dont see a solution to this unless your on your A game constantly and thats unrealistic in my opinion.
     
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  12. thelastcossack

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    The best motivation video out there. I watch this every day.
    Dude you are very strong! 122 days is a very long time!
     
  13. Kimpossible9

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    the way you described it was really cool. Nofap really is a hit or miss game. You've got one chance you either win or lose, there's no in-between.
     
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  14. make_change

    make_change Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man! Im not sure if that video is motivating more like a cry for help! and it could also be a little triggering for some too.
     
  15. SaiyanWarrior

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    Nice.
     
  16. Word.
     

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