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To sex or no to sex?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by EnterTheMatrix, Nov 29, 2020.

  1. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

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    Just a quick question! Can I have sex or no? And consider this in my question that I don't have a Girlfriend!!
     
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  2. No you can't.
    Why? Because I told you to.
     
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  3. Little Prince

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    It would be fine, the point is to rewire yourself from artificial stimulus to actual people but since you don't have a girlfriend how are you going to get one without artificial stimulus? I mean, if you have the option of just meeting people in real life, sure but most people can't do that right now and browsing dating apps will prevent you from recovering.
    It would be easier to recover with a girlfriend...
     
  4. EnterTheMatrix

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    So i should find a girlfriend?
     
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  5. EnterTheMatrix

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    I got it why are you saying this
     
  6. Little Prince

    Little Prince Fapstronaut

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    I have no idea how things are with corona where you live. Here it wouldn't be realistic to find someone :/
     
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  7. EnterTheMatrix

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    But I fear that it should not happen like in desperation to find someone I may end up finding someone who will be not on my level or something and I may regret after having sex with her . Am I right or wrong?
     
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  8. Little Prince

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    Good point. I have noticed that ever since I started to recover I've been having higher expectations, not in looks but personality.
     
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  9. EnterTheMatrix

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    So what answer is left for me now ?
     
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  10. Little Prince

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    I'm demisexual, not the right person to give you this kind of advice. I need to form an emotional connection before being able to have sex. I can't do hookups, I can't just try to pick a women up because she looks hot. I need to get to know her better first. This already decreases the possibility that she's really wrong for me. Maybe do the same? Either you find someone you match with or stay single until you do?
     
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  11. EnterTheMatrix

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    O
    Okay
     
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  12. ChrisDiaz

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    Well men, I´m a single man like you, I just have less that a week here, but I have one year in this fight.
    I think that the answer is... just live your life...
    I mean, do your everyday things, do your homework, enjoy your hobbies, spend time with your friends and family, and out of nowhere someone will come to make you happy and connect.
    I know this phrase is a classic, but the more you look the less you will find that person, believe me
     
  13. EnterTheMatrix

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    Yess
     
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  14. You can have sex in Nofap journey. but in semen retention, you can’t.
     
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  15. Thedaveisdead

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    Yes you can but not with prostitutes or any other category like that . And getting a girlfriend becomes easy when you work on self improvement rather than finding a girlfriend . Desperation is always taken advantage of . Tho , self improvement to a point where people become desperate for you is easier said than done. That's the thing about noFap , it makes you utilize your energy in good things rather than porn plus, apart from it's pros and cons , it makes your willpower even stronger and it can help you beat your vices . Exercise , work , eat well and healthy , meditate and work on your talents or build them . Doing this everyday will automatically get you a girlfriend(you should choose the right person). Plus another point , getting a girlfriend is not only for having sex. It's for having someone to support you and relieve you of your stress and you should do the same . The thing is , you can't have sex immediately when you start a relationship(that's 90% of the time or maybe even more). Hope you have a positive day.
     
  16. Thedaveisdead

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    Same here dude , even my expectations about the personality has increased and I'm still just slightly biased about looks too(I don't mean sex appeal) , but who isn't
     
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