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"Im Ugly" and 15 from fapping please help!)=

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by dontgive, Jun 30, 2015.

  1. dontgive

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    So Im 15 and I used to fap a lot and my hair is thin like my edges are really thin and my sides. I have a lot of acne. I am day 9 and I still see no results I look so ugly whenever I look I at my pics as a kid or even like 2 years ago when I didn't fap I looked good my hair was and my face. Note that I don't think I'm that ugly its just the thin ass hair and my skin and acne how long till I see results could it be the wet dreams?
     
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  2. Darker

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    Nofap isn't a magic thing that will solve all your problems. If you think you are ugly, there are a lot of things that you can do to improve your appearence. For example, I had a serius problem with acne, but after a medical treatment I've solved it. Try to think that nofap can help you to be more confident and give you an extra time. So, try to use it to do things to improve your appearence.
     
  3. SkyDoge

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    Quitting masturbation will not improve your acne or your hair. All the benefits are mental and emotional.

    You are a teenager so acne is unavoidable. Some have it worse than others, you can blame genetics for that. Diet also is a factor. I suggest that you seek treatment for your acne such as a prescription. Please don't beat yourself up about it.
     
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  4. Zinc

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    Get 50mg Zinc Pills.

    I used to pop them daily when I was at your age and it cleared my acne after 2 weeks, I still pop them many years later. If you have a weak stomach it might feel bit pukey, I popped sometimes 150mgs and still did not effect me in any negative way at all.
     
  5. ForgetFapping

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    Not masturbating is not going to help your acne or hair I'm afraid. Your acne is caused by hormone imbalance and I'm sure it will eventually go away on its own. A huge amount of teenagers have acne.

    I used to get acne in High School but now I'm clear.

    Check out acne.org it's a great resource for clearing acne.

    I used to use benzoyl peroxide but I found it very harsh on my skin and sometimes made it worse. Do you know what I use now if I get a zit? Extra Virgin Olive oil. Put it on your zits at night and wash off in the morning. It works, trust me!

    Here is more info on why it works and is great for your skin http://www.newhealthguide.org/Olive-Oil-For-Acne.html
     
  6. Diesel74

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    Man, I wish I had quit fapping at 15! My life would have been so different. Do not give up!!!
     
  7. Happy life

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    Dont fap. I have pretty thin hair also and i would run my hand through my hair and hairs would be on my hand and notice it is worse when i fapped. Im now on my 18th day of not fapping and i notice that my hair isnt really coming out. and when you wash your hair dont use hot water its bad for you scalp. cold water is very good and healthy for your hair.
    I dont know if your really ugly or not but thats not whats important. whats important is your personality and how you carry your self. girls like guys with confidence. So dont fap because that will make you less confident. cold showers are also good for acne and not fapping. i recommend your exerises or even better join a marital art if you can afford it. it will change your life. it will make you more confident and boost your body image.good luck hope you take my advice.
     
  8. dontgive

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    Well yeah cause it has been impacting me much but remember every thing happens for a reason
     
  9. dontgive

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    Yeah its just that I'm only 15 if this happened later I would be fine with because I'm trying to get dreads but yeah confidence is key but did you happen to have any wet dreams during your 18 days? On Day 13 (= but I'm having like dreams every day and had about 2 or 3 wet dreams and my hair hasnt improved. But I do hope at the end of the 30 days ,last of day July my hair will be better and I've learned a lot about being grateful so Ima try and get some girls once school starts again, I really think jacking off ruined my first year.
     
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  10. Diesel74

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    Your way ahead of most guys on here. I look back on my life and see all the good things and opportunities I missed out on because I didnt know how to stop fapping. I had several good jobs, friends, and terrific women disappear because I didnt have the balls to fight. Its too late for me now, but not for you! Find a way to beat this!
     
  11. Builder98

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    If I don't quit you will get many option to improve ur look but if u go for fap nothing will be archived except anxity
     
  12. Jake Wards

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    I feel your pain man. I used to have awful acne that was at the point where my face was a strange shape due to mass swelling. It is one of the hardest things to live with and I don't know about you but having acne definitely played a part in my addiction.

    The thing is with acne and it may just be me but I don't think it's something that you can get rid of by simply addressing one thing. In my experience, desperately trying to cure your acne only makes it worse. This desperateness in my own experience I found to be extremely mentally damaging too. I'll leave a link to a video that helped me but essentially because you don't know when or if you will stop having acne so you need to try and come to terms with it as hard as that is.

    Here are some things that I found helped though, although I do still have mild acne but not so bad.

    -Clean your pillow every two days.
    -Try to master sleeping on your back. (unless this already comes naturally to you)
    -Use a light facial wash and apply this 2 times a day or 3 if you've worked out.
    -Use a very light moisturizer. (Rub into your hands then apply so that you only end up with a very thin layer in your skin.)
    -Make sure you get lots of sleep.
    -Never touch your face for any reason unless you are washing. (I used to touch my face alot due to the obsession)
    -^^^ NEVER.
    -Work out each day. (I have found recently that lots of sweating does acne wonders, wash after wards but very gently).
    -This one is optional but although I'm a guy I do buy concealer. In particular, concealer that contains witchhazel. People cant tell that you are wearing it if you apply it well and the witch hazel dries out spots.

    Everyone is different but this helped alot with mine.

    Also remember that you are not alone. Here is a video that helped me.

    Also she proves you can have acne and still be beautiful!
     
  13. AllanTheCowboy

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    For your hair, how often do you wash it? You could be washing it too often, or not enough, or you could use a different shampoo.

    For your acne:
    1. Warm your skin with a hot towel, or in the shower with hot water, to open your pores.
    2. Wash with a facial cleanser for oily skin.
    3. Wash with a facial scrub that will exfoliate and remove crud from your pores.
    4. After this, splash your face with cold, and I mean FUCKING COLD, water, to close your pores, now that they're clean.
    5. After or before the cold water (I'm honestly not sure) you can also use a skin toner. This (I think) serves largely the same purpose, but why not use more artillery, I guess?
    6. Use acetacylic acid on trouble spots (all the products have the exact same medicinal ingredient - I liked the pads).
    7. On any larger pimples, put a dab of antibiotic cream, like neosporin/polysporin.
    8. DO NOT POP YOUR ZITS. This forces the bacteria deeper into your skin where it will just form the zit again.
    9. This can all really dry out your skin, so moisturize daily.
    10. You might find you need to do all of this more than once per day.
    Do you shave yet? If so, with what razor, cream/gel/soap, and technique? How often?
     
  14. goodnice 3.0

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    what everyone said here was just plain WRONG bro. i’m sure you’ve realized by now that pmo was making your acne and hair worse and face uglier. It’s so obvious, you know since you looked at your bright face before starting pmo and it looked much better. These ppl don’t know what they’re saying. i’m curious how you’re doing now. send me a PM, id love to talk with you and ask how you been
     
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  15. Ronaldo Machuca

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    Um masturbation affects none of those things. Sorry but you have other issues. Ask a doctor.
     
  16. Ronaldo Machuca

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    For one, shut up. PMO is not the reason for any of those problems. He's going through puberty idiot. I am being rude as you are convincing this kid all his problems will go away once he stops fapping, but when he does and sees no results he will blame NoFap for being a lie. So shut up and do your research before telling young kids what is and isn't true. He's 15, he will have acne. His hair issue is probably due to his hygiene, He should ask a doctor for a more specific reason.
     
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  17. Kligor

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    Guys this was almost 5 years ago he is not teen anymore xD
    When you have 15 acne you can't avoid acne,just proper hygiene can help.
    But i got better skin and hair looks(my case,everyone is different)
     
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  18. Hello Friend

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    It definitely affected my hair!
    +2 months of NoFap and my hair is thicker and oily. ( no more hair loss ofc).
     
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  19. That's probably because you started taking care of your hair properly...?
     
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  20. Hello Friend

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    Nope:)
    I tried some other ways to stop my hair loss before NoFap but none of them worked like NoFap!
     

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