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when i'm horny, i do weird stuffs [help]

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by jackyted, Dec 1, 2020.

  1. jackyted

    jackyted New Fapstronaut

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    hey, this is my first post
    so as I mentioned in the title, when I'm horny, I start to do weird stuffs like:
    I start touching people crouches "by accident"
    if I'm in bus, I would move forward to touch someone, like without paying attention.
    when I sleep with friends, I just show my butt or something..

    I hate it! but I keep doing it.. like I do it without thinking..
    I used to masturbate, so I can kill that urge of doing something stupid, even if i did it for like 3-4 times in a row. but I want to stop masturbating..
    I'm now 2 weeks with no PMO, but I'm super horny..
    I can hold myself to not masturbate, but I can't control my crazy stuffs..
    so can you relate, I've been doing this for 6 years

    does anyone have an advice? or can you tell me how or when it will go?

    Thanks for your support :emoji_hearts:
     
  2. Di.Do.555

    Di.Do.555 Fapstronaut

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    U have to work on your identity and your self esteem.
     
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  3. jackyted

    jackyted New Fapstronaut

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    hmm, where do you think I could start? is there any book could help me with that?
    and thanks for your reply
     
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  4. Di.Do.555

    Di.Do.555 Fapstronaut

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    Affirm thousands times and for months if not years:
    I have a healthy self esteem.
    I am strong.
    I am confident.
    I am clean , i am pure.
    Etc...
    Heal your inner wounds.

    Read about self esteem.
    Exercise daily.
    Create small tasks and finish them. Escalate to bigger tasks.
     
  5. BigBob73

    BigBob73 Fapstronaut

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    Sounds like you haven't had much sexual experience. I suggest going to see a high class hooker and get yourself laid. Once that is achieved you can start dating real women. If you don't you may end up with accusations of sexual assault
     
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  6. theFounder

    theFounder Fapstronaut

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    You have to reach out for psychotherapy this urgent because you may end in troubles
     
    Last edited: Dec 2, 2020
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  7. Saythatagain

    Saythatagain Fapstronaut

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    I just finished reading Out of the Shadows and it goes into more detail why we do some of the things we do. Exhibition and likely what you are doing may be an anger response from childhood Trauma. It was shocking to me why I liked exposing myself and got off on it. There is always an answer it may surprise you and it may open up the next layer you have to deal with. Either way I’ve lost count how many of my brothers in recovery (SA) have been arrested. Stay in it, it gets worse and then better.
     
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  8. jackyted

    jackyted New Fapstronaut

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    thank you guys, all of you
    i guess, i'll try my best to control myself, i think i can!
    true, i didn't experience anything sexual yet..
    i'll try to open up with friends about it, although i'm not that strong..
    i can do it!
    i have to do it!!

    i'll try to search for good books, and make my mind busy with important things
     

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