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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Thedaveisdead, Dec 5, 2020.

  1. Thedaveisdead

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    I'm on noFap day 81(I'm 15 years old) and the benefits have been immense , I've become waay more social and my confidence in talking to people has improved . I can talk to girls without objectifying and now my I'm exercising and having only healthy food . I've gained most of the benefits . Just one negative , ever since I started noFap and crossed day 40 ,I've been extremely moody and I've got severe anger issues . THis might trigger someone but take this for instance ,I have my board exams pretty soon so all I'm being told to do is to study . Secondly , I just got a dog and I want to potty train her to poo and pee outside. I'm usually very gentle even when she pees inside but my parents keep telling me to just study and not spend time training her . When I used to Fap , I was really gentle and didn't become angry very fast(I was actually submissive which is also not a good thing). Now I can stand up for myself but these mood swings are annoying . Like today for instance , I hit my dog in anger because she peed in the house while looking at me , and even after that I'm not satisfied and I go to my room in anger and imagine myself punching her and other stuff . Now I feel guilty . Is there anything I can do about these annoying mood swings and anger?(TBH I know this is long but I just wanted to ask).
     
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  2. Branchman

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    Congrats bro, it is a great achieve at your age (I would've liked to reach that streak when I was your age. The maximum days I could reach when I was about 16, was about 40 days)!

    I think that what you're having is PAWS (Post Accute Withdrawal Symptoms). Your moods might be because other reasons or the combination of all the reasons (PAWS, puberty, changes in your environment, relationships, food, etc).

    Informate yourself about PAWS. I recommend you to watch this 2 videos (the first ones, they're on the first page of the thread), they will give you an outlook of PAWS
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/p-a-w-s-what-are-they-cure-duration.231859/

    And I don't really know how to deal with anger. I mean I can contain myself but I have to discharge in something. And even after discharging myself I still feel frustrated and with this rage.
     
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  3. Thedaveisdead

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    Thank you for helping me . I don't exactly want anger management lol . I just wanted to know if it was from noFap or not because it was just too much of a coincidence . Dude , even I don't know how I came to day 81 . Before that my max streak was till day 7 . Plus a 60 day long flatline helped me. Hope you have a great and positive day and I hope that your no porn streak lasts forever:D
     
  4. Branchman

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    Thanks!
    I hope the same for you!
     
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  5. Agent

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    Congrats on your current streak, and remember you are 15, there can be some hormones still playing out in your body and that's normal when i was at that age i would sometimes get a little more irritated than normal, you going in the right path don't worry!
     
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  6. Thedaveisdead

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    Thank you and wooooooaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh , you're on day 1000+, that's insane.
    Yeah these mood swings can be pretty annoying or you can say I literally can't stand myself. But it's fine , I'll get through.
    By looking at your streak , I'm confident that the only place you'll have an orgasm is inside your partner . Congratulations brother , you've almost completed 3 years.
     
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  7. Agent

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    I have no partner and it doesnt make it harder because of it, im so glad to see people with 15 doing this it shows big character!
     
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  8. Thedaveisdead

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    See that proves how strong your willpower is , you still didn't succumb even without a partner. Well , yeah , it's an obvious sign that something is wrong when you go from straight A's to C's and D's and you lose all your talent and personality.
     
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  9. Agent

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    You mean, that happened with you?
     
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  10. Thedaveisdead

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    Yeah , in fact everything I was good at was going down
     
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  11. Agent

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    Its normal, but im sure you gonna get back up
     
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