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Explain What Giving Up Porn Means to You (daily)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Nov 26, 2020.

  1. tlove

    tlove Fapstronaut

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    Replacing porn with love and self-love means that I will be better able to grow deeply loving, non-co-dependent relationships.
     
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  2. Felling and acting like a gentleman and not a creep. And thus having uncorrputed thoughts.
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  3. tlove

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    Feeling more and more confident in who I am.
     
  4. tlove

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    Becoming healthier daily.
     
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  5. ruso

    ruso Fapstronaut

    Focus on my work so I can get peace of mind to find more work / other work.
     
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  6. More time to explore life
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  7. not being a pervert or creep
    • earning your own respect
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  8. Mo1989

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    It gives me purpose to give up an addiction that leaves you empty of Time and physical intimacy and only makes you wet involutarily xD haha
     
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  9. tlove

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    To be able to pay attention to much more in my life and much more around me, every day.
     
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  10. I just want to be a man. I want to be free. I want to love, marry a girl and make a family. I want to be a father, a role-model. If I would watch porn - I could never become who I want to be. Sure, I might as well have ideals that are too high or too low and reality might turn out to be different and I'm sure it will, but at least I will have the power over my life.
     
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  11. Spot on!

    Become a man you admire.

    Those are things many of us should shoot for, though as you said things may happen and not turn out that way.
     
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  12. Mo1989

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    Somethings still can't be explained with science till we find it. But statisticaly speaking you are 100 right coz most of us have similar experiences like yours and the goals like gaining self-respect, confidence, Humour, better cognitive abilities are also mutual. and all the things you mentioned seprate us humans from animals. If we think about it the prime idea to watch porn in the first place is the need to satisfy our sexual needs and animal instincts but it doesnt provide us with intimacy and romance and sympathies with an actual real person who shares these feelings with you. Thanks for reading too !
     
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  13. Being more present in life
     
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  14. tlove

    tlove Fapstronaut

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    I can get clear on what my motivation is, daily and in the long term.
     
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  15. Want to be a father figure more and more as times goes by. But also, I just want to be that innocent version of myself again.
     
  16. tlove

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    Really feeling my feelings. All of them.
     
  17. Drop Bear

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    I want to regain my emotional capacity, i want to find happiness, joy and love through meaningful things. I don't want to have my emotions consumed by PMO and be left stranded in a fucking pit of bleakness. I don't want to be on my deathbed having done nothing and feel nothing.

    not gonna lie, replying to this thread makes me teary, thank you.
     
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  18. RK2020

    RK2020 New Fapstronaut

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    Para mí, dejar la pornografía es un renacimiento, eliminar aquello que me parece mal o desagradable de mi persona. Deseo crecer, deseo superarme a mí mismo, deseo ser fuerte, mucho más fuerte. Que nada ni nadie pueda apartarme de mis objetivos, que mi vida tenga el sentido que yo le doy. Pensar en cómo me gustaría que fuera mi vida me llena de mucho entusiasmo e ilusión. He recaído tantas veces que ya no recuerdo, sin embargo, no me he dado ni me daré por vencido. Pues, estoy convencido de que dentro de mí existe algo más, algo que late más fuerte que una simple emoción, existe mi anhelo
     
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  19. HighRise Lifestyle

    HighRise Lifestyle New Fapstronaut

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    Giving it away means I can have the focus needed to take me to the next level in life. It's crazy how many of us feel alone going thru something like this but its actually a very common battle that we all are fighting. I support everyone of you. Hopefully you are supporting me. Go in the better direction, the road less traveled. It is a road that turns into gold you just have to stay on it long enough to witness it.
     
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