[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Mid way through day 2

 

Day 1 is completed.

 

Day 70 complete. It's nice to think so much of this process is complete. I woke up with intense morning wood today, but didn't have urges otherwise so it was easy to make it through the day.

 

Congrats bro!

 

Day 12/90( day 13 in progress)
Day 12/90(( of No MO)
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DAY 90 [. ]

 

Day 0- this is challenging, but I am recommitting to no videos or shows of any kind, excepting my work and a possible movie or two, only with family, making sure it is not psub. I will also except therapy and support groups like this. For me, stepping back from dopamine has been the most effective thing for learning to manage my emotions more effectively and make better choices, even though I’ve only done that focused for a short time. I watched some talkshows after work today that didn’t push me to PMO, but I know that they were Time wasters and that I did them to avoid feeling difficult emotions and taking challenging steps that might cause me some emotional pain. The big thing is that feeling those feelings and taking those steps are not just healthy, but also part of completing goals that are important to me, like finding a healthy partner, re-applying to grad school, and moving out of my parents house. Those are my drivers. So, no screening This time around, with the exception of the things noted above.

 

So, time to check in. Been very busy with self-improvement and just taking care of personal business. Relapsed frequently as I ventured into the slippery slope of online dating once again about 2 weeks ago - seem to trigger relapse or become something that potentielly teases me to procrastinate into PMO. I don't know why I cant stop: I know I need to use my phone daily due to different reasons and I hate to become even more disconnected and lonely from other people yet I cant shake addiction to online dating. It haunts me.

Even though I can't say I get the hottest ladies, I seem to think I can beat the odds over and over again kind of like a gambling addict compulsively betting against rime and reason and not the least the slide of self-confidence.

I really need serious help to stop beta-orbiting on these bloody apps, so HELP! I do not wanna do this anymore, I am sure there are a few good women that survived the nuclear holocaust of toxic feminism but they are surely not on these apps...

 

Day 4.

 

Day 16 down!

 

Congs and welcome to the next challenge,

 

Okay, @tlove I will be watching you from now on. Keep your word and don't relapse. Am waiting for you in the next challenge 90days from now. No more no less but 90days. To find a healthy partner you have to first be healthy. Let's go. Am watching you.

 

Day 01/90

 

I am having same issue here. Been trying to quit pmo and now i go to date apps, i deleted and re-downloaded it 4 times in 2 days. Everytime i ask myself what am i doing so i delete it, then i find myself going into downloading it again.

 

Keep going buddy

 

80/90. Strong urges these days are bothering. Only 10 more days left to finish this one. I'm going for the 365 after this.

170 days of not using porn.

 

Hi everyone! Tough December. Watched some pictures of girls in the gym, but no any P. Had MO after. Am I out of the challenge? Any advice?

 

Day 3

 

Last night was very difficult.There was flashes of porn clips I had seen while I was trying to sleep.Though I didnt give in to those memories but I understand that it has set the base and may make it difficult for me in the coming days for fapping is not an impulsive action done at that instant, it is a culmination of thoughts and your conduct few days prior to fapping day.
Few good things that I managed to do-
I didnt touch my genitals
I didnt my urges take over
I didnt spend much time alone
I was conitnuously praying and calling my God to help me
Things I could have improved-
Not let my sadness, grief take over
Try to sleep early
Try to divert my mind when porn images were coming up

 

Day 7. I can do this. Today was the first time in a while I'm being tempted to watch p. I need to stay strong. Got my eyes set on a new highest streak. Be well my brothers. Lets catch this W.

 

Again its my first day after completing 30 days