Can sex toys help

Once I had this problem and this is how I solved it. The urologist told me that my body has lost the habit of having sex with a woman, so you can't help yourself with your hands, just forbid yourself to do it. You need to have sex with a girl more often, and then the quick ejaculation will pass. You are not impotent; by the way, it is better to take another ointment for warming blood vessels with a cooling effect, sold in any sex shop. I tried the take remote control classic vibrator for a girl, but she said that I was better, and the toy would remain in reserve just in case. I know that this will not solve all problems, but you can start at least small and then get more.

 

Honestly i would say hold off on marriage or dating until you are recovered.

 

I'd like to know more about the nerve damage, or are you just accustom to being rough with yourself that the soft touch of another isn't enough? Mental/internal struggles, greatly effect our ability to enjoy the very treasures we seek, ED is often created from our own perspective of things...

Yes, sex toys can help, but ONLY if they help two couple connect. Using a fleshlight will not prepare you for sex with a woman. Using a hollow strap-on will not help her enjoy the real you. A thicker condom can reduce your sensations and often helps some from ejaculating quickly, but not all, and depending on the situation.

I hate the term premature ejaculation. It's so negative. what if I called it an efficient use of time? That you got your business done in record time by yourself because 1) you're in a hurry, 2) your hiding and need out fast, 3) you feel guilt about prolonging it 4) your focus'd on finishing.

Compare it to eating. Some say I'm the slowest eater. I agree, I talk, breath, and eat out of my mouth, nasal issues. At a social group it's unkind to be mute. So I focus more on pretending to be part of the conversation than I do eating.. (I mask, but that's my issue as a sissy around others masking as male)

If the goal was to clean my plate (which is NEVER a good goal), than being efficient, being fast is good. I have a smoothy for breakfast because I suck that down fast while I'm going to work/working without talking.

But imagine being in a room with persons you like, wanting the night to last. you can eat at a reduced rate, and finish last, because you want to..

Well, an orgasm isn't quite like that, you can work to finish when you want to, but you are accustom to finishing as a goal. When you spend time with your partner, find new goals, the finishing will not be a bad thing, especially if it's not the real goal. The real goal being spending time with her/him/them..

 

Use your hands.
I have given women some intense orgasms just by using my fingers.
I have several women telling me that it was their favourite sex experience.
If you want a demonstration , there is a guy called hanks hands ( he has a page and also videos on porn sites).
Women need to feel the masculine edge. It doesn't matter what you use.
Your attitude, your confidence, and your masculinity ...that is what matters.

 

Hey Rishi,

Sounds like you are thinking about quite a lot. The damage you are talking about may be permanent but see a urologist to confirm. I've noticed that if I commit to NoFap and 'relax' during sex things get better. Try to relax your body and not tense while you do the deed. Breathe slowly and don't grip hard, do not do MO to porn for as long as it takes. I had a stage i was doing this and it helped so much with everything especially a fulfilling ejaculation. It will help you for preparing for the real thing. Also don't put emphasis on the first time you have intercourse with your to be wife. You might go early etc don't stress, it happens and you will get better with time. Some couples use toys to spice things up, do whatever you like when that time comes. I still think you can cure your issues.