To all the virgins here, hear me out...**TRIGGER**

Yep i’ve realised that regular sex will not stop your addiction for PMO. I always though this would cure it. As a result I am
now more than ever determined to try to quit this habit. Sex satisfy your urges for a few days, but you’ll turn to PMO again, we need to realise that it’s cuz of an addiction that we PMO and it’s not healthy and we need to stop for this!

Thanks for reiterating this for everyone

 

Just like to qualify this from experience. Slow (tantric style) PIV with no intention for either partner to O. can help to refocus and resensitise the whole system when it's been overloaded with P. and self stimulation (excess friction) May not suit or work for everyone but it is a valid PMO free method (unless you're doing a hard mode streak) and sure is fun!

 

Thank you for this. I'm a virgin and I feel like the older I've become, the more painfully inadequate and alien I felt among peers because of it. Like it seriously messes with my self-esteem and self-worth to the point where I can't seem to make new friends and just want to hide. So I always thought losing my virginity should be my top priority, like I desperately need that experience to actually feel like a mature adult. Because most of the time I feel like I'm still a child, a teenager at best. I've just never had this coming off age experience of losing my virginity. It's like I'm only pretending to be an adult and everyone just assumes I've had sex when I really haven't. Really gets me into a massive funk just thinking and writing about it...but this post kind of makes me contemplate the priority I give to sex.

 

Do you guys still consider yourselves as virgins? myself i'v seen and done too much for that but good advice #sfmark12.

 

What do you mean?? The concepts of virginity and losing one's virginity are very straight forward and fixed. Did you have sexual intercourse with someone or not? It's not like there's much leeway to interpret one's status. Has nothing to do with what you've seen...and as long as you haven't had sex it also has nothing to do with what you've done. You probably just mean your innocence if I'm guessing correctly.

 

Agree that regular sex will not bring "enlightenment". I introduced another thought to your post for consideration. A different quality of sex...slow and non-intentional eg not aiming for O. That can bring enlightenment and help (for some) to cope with PMO addiction.

 

i would never describe myself as "innocent" porn or no, what i meant is that i know more about sex than most promiscuous fellas out there.

 

I don’t want to watch porn anymore. My iPhone screen might freeze or something might go wrong with my iPhone and if it gets stuck on pornhub.com then I’ll need to go to the AT&T store to fix my iPhone and the employee will see porn.

 

you know its super easy to "reset" your iphone, and porn (unless you are looking for dark stuff) is not likely to freeze it, it's just some video.