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Cant control my mind porn addict is gone

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by BEPSY97, Jan 17, 2021.

  1. BEPSY97

    BEPSY97 Fapstronaut

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    Hey


    Im on day 13 of being abstence of orgasm. Its been a month i have seen porn and really i dont have urges to watch porn.. but as i do feel better i feel the need to realse my semen.. i try to study and i keep thinking about having sex with this girl... the reason why I hold myself of doing it is because I dont love her and dont want to waste my time/power/energy to her.. i hope you do understand... can someone help me.. its hell and im on day 13 of doing monk mode nofap.
     
  2. ruso

    ruso Fapstronaut

    I haven’t done monk / hard mode ever. But based on what I’ve seen is you gotta have goals and milestones to reach that have nothing to do with nofap.

    That’s going to help you to keep busy, and have a practical purpose on why you are doing this in the first place that will strengthen any other abstract purpose (religious/altruistic/etc) you are doing this for.
     
  3. BEPSY97

    BEPSY97 Fapstronaut

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    I dont watch porn and dont masturbate that stage is already past
     
  4. greenishmoon

    greenishmoon Fapstronaut

    I understand. If you don't like the idea of being with that girl it may be the best thing to not do so. I'm in the same stage and sports really help me out.
     
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  5. TheForsakeen

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    porn addict are also sex addict so you wanting to have sex with her even though you don't like her is to be expected.
     
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  6. greenishmoon

    greenishmoon Fapstronaut

    I never saw it that way, but experiencing rebooting I was kind of getting it by intuition. Good comment.
     
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  7. Decoder™

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    The problem that comes along as we grow as a person is that there's this aura that makes people naturally gravitate towards and engage in interaction with us. That makes us subject to certain cues that hijack our limbic brain to seek instant gratification.

    Long term goals start to matter less in comparison to the natural desire for intimacy.

    I know very little about your daily routine but if I had to make a guess I'd tell you to organize your thoughts (maybe write down roughly) around what you will sacrifice and gain if you succumb to that drive. I recommend doing it as soon as you wake up and before sleep, as those times are when the subconscious is most accessible.

    There's potential inside you wanting to manifest but is up to you if that will turn out towards intimacy or ambition.
     

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